Also BPD parents when you don't text back after a busy day...1wk ⋅ meijicookie ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Mother’s Day in the US is coming up. Sister sent me this to commiserate on the first advertisements for the “holiday”cropping up1yr ⋅ krysj9 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
So grateful that this community allowed me to anticipate these holiday messages and stay strong in my 2 years NC. To anyone else it may help... here’s my uBPD (and likely NPD) dad reaching out and getting increasingly upset by every minute I don’t reply.1yr ⋅ fooddealz ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
This was so validating for me to see today - maybe it will be for you too4yr ⋅ pandora___xo ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Kids shouldn’t be responsible to pick up the pieces of their parents’ shitty life. I wish people would understand that and stop posting stuff like this. 😡5yr ⋅ ladyvontreppenwitz ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
My bpd moms apology, absolving her of parentification and enmeshment3mo ⋅ awfulhumanbean13 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I didn't respond further. Turned my phone off and enjoyed my day.1yr ⋅ CobaltLemon ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Crazy, immature and reckless behaviors that they think are harmless fun or quirky8mo ⋅ BitchP0lypore ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Told my uBPDmom I was engaged and she sent me. Only thing missing is an urn with my ashes.8mo ⋅ minimal-minimalist ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
The second anniversary of NC is coming up, and I find myself thinking through a virtual highlight reel of reasons why.4yr ⋅ Sylfaein ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I'm not trying to raise my voice. I just want you to hear me. (Sigh)3yr ⋅ SpaceMyopia ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
uBPD mom posted this which sent me into a cycle of anger and resentment3yr ⋅ MyCatLucifer ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
🙄 NC for 12 weeks and it is so tempting to rage respond1yr ⋅ AccomplishedAd8766 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
When your mom says she's worried that the neighbor kid might be getting abused at home8mo ⋅ onecherrytomato ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I live 4 hours away and arranged to visit my BPD mum this weekend whilst visiting my sister (appropriate for *this* is bpd flair?)2yr ⋅ samalama96 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
A meme I created for my sister. Our mum when she wonders why we seldomly visit her...3yr ⋅ sparkling_sand ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Mom doesn’t acknowledge my birthday and then sends this text the morning after???1yr ⋅ glittermakesmeshiver ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
in need of some support. it's already a hard time and I log into FB to see my mom posted this.1yr ⋅ suntmint ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
The guilting doesn’t stop. It just gets more ridiculous.2yr ⋅ Illustrious-Ad-8190 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I finally replied with what I’ve been thinking almost constantly for years1yr ⋅ cross_ever ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I stopped calling my uBPD Mom every week (gone NC now), and it really helps to have receipt of her tactics. I made it clear that I’m done with her until she respects my boundaries, but to her it’s the “silent treatment” 🙄1yr ⋅ RoseButte ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
got this text from NC eDad. feeling very sad. would love some reassurance/validation.1yr ⋅ hiru25 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
When someone says, They're still your parent, therefore you should love and respect them despite the abuse.3yr ⋅ SpaceMyopia ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I know this was a joke by the artist, but this was too real for me.3yr ⋅ whisperHailHydra ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Has your (u)bpd mum taken away your ability to make friends with other women?9mo ⋅ Avioceut ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Felt this passage about emotional contagion in Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents in my soul the other day when BPDMom stomped around over there being a separate group chat without her.7mo ⋅ ToKeepAndToHoldForev ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I’ve been reading a lot of Rupi Kaur recently and this resonated with me today1yr ⋅ lenbop ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I hate when people post stuff like this! Im happy for them but this whole unconditional love stigma has to go. It puts the idea in everyone’s head that if a parent treated their child poorly there must be something wrong with the child... okay end rant.3yr ⋅ MaddArya ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
It wasn’t easy but I finally stood up for myself. I have to break the cycle.2yr ⋅ WifiKitty ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Haven’t talked to my mom since Christmas, when she had a meltdown and hurled a bunch of insults at me because I forgot to move some furniture. Now she wants to move on and forget it without offering any sort of apology or promise to be better. So convenient.1yr ⋅ eggjacket ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I already paid my cat tax but her paws were adorable and I wanted to share3yr ⋅ ecemun ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Does anyone else wonder if their bpdparent is narcissistic?1yr ⋅ obsessedw_dogs ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Dad “got arrested” and was TEXTING from his “cell” asking for bail money. A new one of his ploys (and a bad one at that) to try to get money.2yr ⋅ takaiishi ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Hi friends, I posted the other day about not wanting to tell my uBPD mom about getting engaged. Found this note with a box of broken childhood pictures on my porch.4yr ⋅ thetallamanda ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I guess she is just going to text me guilt-tripping things once a week now - regardless of the fact I don’t reply.1yr ⋅ ITKitten ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Love this. Always felt such pressure to know everything about something I like or else I’m a failure.4yr ⋅ AegeriaEnchantress ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Ah yes, the classic “argument”. Thought you guys might find this relatable too 🙃1yr ⋅ woogynoogy ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Although I am not a talented haiku writer, here is a picture of my expressive cat. Looking forward to reading and chatting with you all.3yr ⋅ Pressure_Gold ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Follow up to yesterday. Exactly like I predicted, her ‘psychiatrist’ supposedly said that boundaries were unhealthy. 😂This is the lie that has broken my back. The manipulation stops now. Going NC tonight.3yr ⋅ RubyDooobyDoo ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I'm not an artist by any means but this concept was on my mind and I felt like I needed to express it in some way.3yr ⋅ poprockroppock ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I posted yesterday about my uBPD mum and the replies helped SO MUCH that I actually am making one of my favourite comments into a card 😆 Thank you to everybody who commented. Hope somebody else finds this as helpful to read as I did!!4yr ⋅ smakchat ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Once again, uBPD father trying to ruin my boundaries and my career1yr ⋅ Luna_0 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Just what I needed to see today, so I thought I'd pass it along ❤4yr ⋅ lizconcarne ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
A friend of mine shared this and it just rubs me the wrong way1yr ⋅ CobaltLemon ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Gray Rock Gary will not react. Inspirational art to keep you gray and level when BPD is near.4yr ⋅ FiberartistUnglued ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Beautiful Quote from a friend on FB. This is for all of us RRB4yr ⋅ AegeriaEnchantress ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Lovely text from my 66 year old uBPD mother this morning:1yr ⋅ NoRecommendation8332 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
My mom's realtor texted me. I wanted to tell him hey at least you get to stop dealing with her once this transaction is over.3yr ⋅ BizzyHaze ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
It would have been my dad’s 60th today (he died) and this is what my BP mother texted me. For context, they broke up before I was even born. I don’t even think they dated for a whole year? Smh.1yr ⋅ kristencatparty ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
See also: Cluster B Personality Disorder (my mom tried to leave this for me on my Facebook wall)2yr ⋅ SJane3384 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
My eDad tries to guilt me for refusing to talk to my uBPD mom (NC/VLC)4mo ⋅ Coffee_PhD ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
NC with BPD mom and can’t tell her that I have heart failure like her. Sucks because she has information but she will cause me to be worse with the stress. Stress makes this 💯 % worse so I will not break NC. Just got the diagnosis but no family support, good thing I have my wife’s sweet family.1yr ⋅ plantlovekittypunch ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Meme I just made out of something that my sister said, that really sent me into fight or flight mode (story in the comments)3yr ⋅ Julie-1996 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I don’t usually repost random stuff from Facebook but this is a message that bears repeating since I’m still bad at “no” sometimes & others here might be too :)4yr ⋅ smakchat ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
A drawing from my childhood that speaks volumes to my relationship with my Mother. I’m the sad penciled person.4yr ⋅ Blandann1215 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I’ve been NC with my BPD mom since Thanksgiving. Received this from my sister... what am I even supposed to do?1yr ⋅ 07g6gt ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Cat tax— this is my baby Cleo in her witch costume. We have the same birthday and I love her to death.1yr ⋅ geetargurl09 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
My uBPD mom as a grandparent...I make a simple mistake, I’m to be shamed and name called2yr ⋅ Deep-Resort-1797 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Even though it’s about dating relationships, almost every single one of these applied to my relationship with my parents. Self-betrayal was expected.4yr ⋅ googlyeyes15 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Anyone else have a collection of compression wraps/bandages? Lol1yr ⋅ overtimedonut ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
For the times when your BPD claims they had a harder childhood.3yr ⋅ SpaceMyopia ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
been trying to reconnect with mother again and I thought I would make my experience into a meme4yr ⋅ Leeuuh ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
It seems like so many of our BPD parents are deciding to dump stuff off at our doors in droves. Wondering if there was some online forum promoting this as the cool new thing to do, I stumbled upon this gem from an atrocious estranged parents website. Yes, Sheri, it's OBVIOUSLY the weed.1yr ⋅ Rainysquirrel ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I found out by accident that my mother died. I got a letter in the mail about her retirement account. I don't know when she died and I don't know how. I also don't know how to feel3yr ⋅ Beret_of_Poodle ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Accept this is all year round. Or was that just my family?2yr ⋅ The_silver_sparrow ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Here's a cat with bionic legs, hope you will welcome me to this society4yr ⋅ helpamonkpls ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I have a no trespassing order against my uBPD mom because she started coming to my house. Now I feel like I don’t have the strength to report it. She used new number to text this too1yr ⋅ ConceptionalNormie ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
After a conversation with a friend. People think things are very black and white..4yr ⋅ rolopolosmartie ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines