I guess she is just going to text me guilt-tripping things once a week now - regardless of the fact I don’t reply.1yr ⋅ ITKitten ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
My 76 y.o. father in law was just diagnosed with lymphoma and has to go through chemo but yep - let me make my BPD moms broken foot my main priority despite the fact we are hardly talking at all right now1yr ⋅ ITKitten ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I caved on NC and text my mom. Feeling stupid and in need of encouragement. I want my mom in my life, I just want her to treat me better. I need encouragement. I know texting her was wrong.1yr ⋅ ITKitten ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Thought you could all relate to the latest text I sent my mom after she sent me a video of some tv show talking about how hard being a mother is and how their children just simply don’t get it. Cue all the eye rolls.1yr ⋅ ITKitten ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
After berating me with more aggressive text messages today about how I’m cold and hateful (I’ve not replied to anything for a few weeks) she ended with a gif today. The whole thing started because I said my boundaries were to not be yelled at like a month ago. Like wtf - is this a joke to her?1yr ⋅ ITKitten ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Sorry for posting so much these past couple days. Last one - I promise. But holy sh*t - did she genuinely just try to say I hate gay people??? I planned their f**king wedding and sent them on their honeymoon 🙄 More context in comments.1yr ⋅ ITKitten ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
After weeks of me not responding to her hurtful, guilt-trippy, and often aggressive texts, I got this today. I’m filled with anxiety now. Deep down I want it to be a letter with her taking responsibility for herself and actions but I know better.1yr ⋅ ITKitten ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I don’t plan on replying but this unsolicited text is the beginning of many more I foresee. 😮💨This is what happened last time I went NC - a barrage of texts. I blocked her on FB already but there is too much FOG to block her phone yet.1yr ⋅ ITKitten ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines