I have trauma, but trauma doesn’t have me! My uBPD mom always took my glasses away from me as a kid? I’ve been NC since Mother’s Day and finally got a pair!3yr ⋅ sabmasterflex ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Do they have conventions where they all learn to talk the same way?1yr ⋅ catfart- ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I normally don’t respond but I let my sassy thoughts win😭4mo ⋅ happy2bhere0112 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Always though being extremely sensitive was a gift...never released it is a symptom2yr ⋅ mysoulishome ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
My BPD mom removed my bedroom door as a child, one of many disrespected boundaries. Being invasive is not the same as being engaged.3yr ⋅ rizzo1717 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Let us have a moment of silence for the text my brother just received from our uBPD mom1mo ⋅ happy2bhere0112 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
The hardest thing I dealt with growing up was the guilt I have for not liking my own mother until I finally read this.1yr ⋅ Looey22 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Saw this in my feed, thought it applied well to RBBs and our forgetful parents.3yr ⋅ wwbfd ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
The duality of this sub (both are acceptable and normal reactions)1mo ⋅ GlumMirror5 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Got blamed for my trauma response to her abuse when I was a kid1mo ⋅ Direct_East8091 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
My mom doesn't text, she writes chapters of a memoir. She's like an author trying to evoke a very specific emotional response from her reader (this is from a thread with my siblings).1yr ⋅ krelboink ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Last night, mother thought texting me insinuating I gave her cancer with a guilt trip was a good idea 👌😂 (argument text)1yr ⋅ robotease ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Came across this on Instagram the other day... I feel called out 😂3yr ⋅ SnowSkye2 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Someone I’m friends with shared this and I found it really ironic because my BPD mom did exactly that?3yr ⋅ rachiedoubt ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Did anyone else end up with Complex-PTSD as a result of being raised by a BPD?1yr ⋅ Looey22 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Saw this posted as a positive thing in another sub and got the WORST feeling of dread. Funny how one pic can be seen in such vastly different ways.1yr ⋅ bellaphile ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
This is the feeling after going NC & enjoying a life of peace.3yr ⋅ Jadesands ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
This is for anyone who has made a hard decision to go NC or anything else this year2yr ⋅ AWarriorNotSurvivor ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
She stripped my bed two days early, hid the spare sheets, got ridiculously drunk on my moving day and made a scene but I'm FINALLY moved away from my uBPD mother! SUCCESS!!4yr ⋅ Saphira_Brightscales ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
How many times have we all dealt with this in one form or another...2yr ⋅ rocketscience08 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Bought the perfect Mother’s Day card a couple years ago but have always been too afraid to give it to her.3yr ⋅ EarthBaby87 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
On international women's day I fixed this crappy trite message.1yr ⋅ CadenceQuandry ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
The fact my parents wouldn’t accept this is part of the problem.3yr ⋅ whisperHailHydra ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Also parents: *manages to blame you for something they DO remember*2yr ⋅ bwssoldya ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Found this in a copy of 'Understanding the Borderline Mother' I borrowed from the library - so wholesome!!3yr ⋅ Pretentious_Grand ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Finding cute notes my mum would write me whilst I was in high school 🥰✨2yr ⋅ Otherwise-Reindeer82 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I saw this and I thought of you all. And me. Really important point for everyone.4yr ⋅ essellburns ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I’m an elementary teacher. This was from a back to school activity. This student summed up years of therapy in one sentence 😂8mo ⋅ CaregiverOk5690 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I’ve been NC for 3.5 years. I heard my parents were in therapy and thought about reaching out. Then I got this in the mail.1yr ⋅ madamnastywoman ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
One facet of my anxiety. Another being my mom's perpetual bait-n-switch.3yr ⋅ IriseSakura ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Saw this on r/tumblr and thought you guys would appreciate it3yr ⋅ emlovesfood ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Noticed a lot of letters from NC mothers in this sub... so made this meme1mo ⋅ GlumMirror5 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Shout out to my PwBPD for telling me how good I have it compared to their childhood3yr ⋅ Leeuuh ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Tried to set a boundary with my uBPD mom. This was the text I got in return.6mo ⋅ pansyseeds ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I already payed my kitty taxes but I couldn’t resist. Hope you guys enjoy it. Happy Weekend!1yr ⋅ Cefli3 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
My psychotic/hermit mom It can't be you, my daughter wouldn't behave like this1yr ⋅ Brilliant-Yam-7614 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Update: She found my post. Hope she sees this one and goes through this subreddit to see what's really going on.8mo ⋅ domjoepro ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Only you all can understand the despair and anxiety that this aisle brings.3yr ⋅ AKnitWit777 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
In case anyone needs a giggle (or a last minute card for the holiday). It seems I've been shopping in the wrong section for years!1yr ⋅ ArsenicInTeacups ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Friendly reminder; You don't need to fix everything yourself. Dare to ask for help.2yr ⋅ bwssoldya ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Found this on Tumblr, and I can't get it out of my head...2yr ⋅ newsprintpoetry ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Update: I finally stood up for myself and immediately blocked her after. I am FREE! Starting my NC journey TODAY!1yr ⋅ Glad_Operation_2092 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Thanks Dad for saying the quiet parts out loud 🥰 #notokay3mo ⋅ maybebutprobsnot ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
My mother ever-so-subtly accusing me, at two years old, of causing her miscarriage. I knew nothing of this miscarriage previously.1yr ⋅ buckskinstallion ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
