A friend copied this to FB and it really resonated with me. As I go down the rabbit hole of researching BPD and why I am the way I am, I feel this down to my toes.4yr ⋅ coalminersgd ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Running out of that excuse to not see uBPD parent because I got vaccinated. LC life.3yr ⋅ boboanimalrescue ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
My BPD mom always said she would disown me if I got a tattoo but she can’t now bc I did it first! I just got this and I am so in love. She would rage at me if she saw this, but I don’t care. It seems like a small thing, but it’s the first thing that I have done without fear since going NC.3yr ⋅ jaycares2much ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Saw this earlier, felt encouraged, and I hope it encourages you too.4yr ⋅ whisperHailHydra ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
This would be a figurative death wish in with borderline parents. I’m so glad I live across the country from my egg donor! (Photo stolen from Facebook)1yr ⋅ SophiaElvenKitten ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
But they had reasons to be upset with me. They were only human.3yr ⋅ SpaceMyopia ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I have never found a more accurate meme that explains my experience interacting with my parents. I would also add “and then gaslight you for being ‘sensitive’ or ‘overreacting,’ or ‘cAn’T yOu TaKe A jOkE??”4yr ⋅ mitch-plz ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
This workbook, and the book that precedes it, have been incredibly helpful in helping me understand the effects of being RBB.2yr ⋅ cynicaloptimissus ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Spotted this scrolling through IG. I feel like these could apply to how a lot of us feel here.5yr ⋅ moonmakeswaves ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Saw this on Quora and thought other people would also find this horrifyingly relatable.1yr ⋅ junkholiday ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
childhood dog is dying. dad makes it about dBPD mom 😀👍7mo ⋅ generic_username_uwu ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Came across this on Facebook. I don’t think it was meant for me 😅9mo ⋅ robreinerstillmydad ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
May you all be blessed with someone who warns you and also finds it all quite ridiculous5yr ⋅ candyfordinner11 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I found this and it resonated so much - what were/are things that your BPD parent would do to confuse you like this?3yr ⋅ poplapmeisiekind ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I did try for a few Christmases. This is why I don't anymore.4yr ⋅ essellburns ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
This part hits hard... Whenever I needed affection or a hug I wouldn’t go to my mom, I would go to my childhood dog. When he passed away in 2018 my support system crumbled to the ground.8mo ⋅ Fluffy-Weapon ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
How to deal with this mentality? (more info in comments)1yr ⋅ FastProperty4061 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
It’s that time of year again! I commemorate each year of No Contact, by making a meme about it.9mo ⋅ Sylfaein ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Looking back on my relationship/friendship track record before I acknowledged my CPTSD from childhood trauma.4yr ⋅ theballinist ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
That moment of realizing others probably don’t live like this...1yr ⋅ Oh_Snappity ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
The texts I received a few days before my wedding...more details in comments1yr ⋅ applecoretoss ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
My mom “helped” me move. After my divorce all I said I wanted to keep was my PC and my dog. Here’s my two monitors. (Haiku in comments)1yr ⋅ AntipatheticDating ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
My mom’s response to me setting the boundary of being spoken to with respect, and telling her I will go no contact if necessary. Her response was the only answer I needed.1yr ⋅ tellyourdogisaidhiii ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Stronger has always made me so very angry. This articulates why.3yr ⋅ gladhunden ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Update on my cat that was dropped of at my doorstep by my uBPD mom.1yr ⋅ SweetPinkBakery ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
MFW my mom says she is worried my classmate is being abused at home2yr ⋅ Colamouth ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Betting a lot here can relate. I've definitely done this.9mo ⋅ Kristenmarie2112 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Anyone else cringe and get super grossed out when their parent is suddenly sickeningly sweet and kind to them?7mo ⋅ FreshPrincess90 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Uh huh, mom. So funny. (I can't wait to never speak to you again).11mo ⋅ Master_Kura ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
This is so important, feel like BPD parents just want to have babies that people will compliment not human beings that grow up and become their own person2yr ⋅ nushxpvt ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
If anyone is looking for validation that VLC or NC is justified.3yr ⋅ kmofotrot ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Been a bit since I’ve been here but here’s to some fun new conversations4yr ⋅ sdl915 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
NC or not, we have done the work to walk away from toxic people rather they were family or friends or a shitty job, the day we walked away we learned some self worth. Don’t always have to be a BIGGER person3yr ⋅ freyawitch96 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Thought I’d leave this right here for those who are in a similar position. Sending love and positive vibes.2yr ⋅ thequeasydream ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
If I have to hear my mom using her miserable marriage or high stress job to justify her abuse ONE MORE TIME...2yr ⋅ CatPooedInMyShoe ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Looking for perspective on uBPD mom’s recent post- anyone have any thoughts?1yr ⋅ merce0519 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I thought y’all would appreciate this, especially at this difficult time of year.3yr ⋅ CatPooedInMyShoe ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Surprise! He’s coming after all (and mad that I made plans when said he wasnt coming cause he was sick). Here’s my BINGO CARD.1yr ⋅ ArchduchessAnn ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
She texted me “Look up INTJ parent. No excuses. Good morning.” So I verified that is was INDEED a fricking excuse and changed her contact info since she wants to be a clown so damn bad.1yr ⋅ Biiiishweneedanswers ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Thought y’all would appreciate this meme. It is really nice to have a therapist, a professional, validate you.4yr ⋅ CatPooedInMyShoe ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Was this anyone else? I’d take 6am busses to school just so I could be in the quiet library for a few hours before class, and took as many extracurriculars to stay late as possible.2yr ⋅ poplapmeisiekind ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
My mom would always be so offended when I spent 8-12 hours every day at my friend’s house growing up. Hmmmm... wonder why4yr ⋅ mitch-plz ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I got married saturday, my mother is obviously so thrilled! I blocked her shortly after1yr ⋅ Various_Molasses4864 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Letter given to me from my eight year old sister after going NC with my mother.1yr ⋅ peasentsam ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
I was always weirded out by the song Rudolph The Red-Nosed Reindeer as a kid. Now I know why.2yr ⋅ EmPURRessWhisker ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
This resonated with me a lot - looking for validation from the very person who makes you feel insecure3yr ⋅ lenbop ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
My mom has said something along these lines so many times....4yr ⋅ yoyoadrienne ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
This is a weird thing for a mom to say to her adult child, right? #ubpdmom1yr ⋅ MoanaArielle ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
After multiple tries to get me to break NC, my mother sends me this... how does she even expect me to react?1yr ⋅ Flashy_Shame_7896 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
If you’re still living the nightmare, I promise life gets better ❤️ first fire in my new home with my little family. 8 years NC and feeling absolutely content because my mom will never be able to take this away from me.4yr ⋅ rizzo1717 ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Friendly Reminder - It’s ok to keep yourself sane and healthy. You do not have to update your BPD parent around the clock4yr ⋅ Leeuuh ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
