3 years ago this month I separated. This sub changed my life. I thought I was dying, and now I can’t stop living (and looking like a fuck boy). For all of you in the thick of it—it keeps better. Keep going 💕6mo ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
“Hello? This is the 90’s, it wants its clear phone and track suit back.” (My partner in peak 90’s middle school fashion)1yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/blunderyears
Went to my first gay wedding, cried the whole ceremony, danced my ass off, the bartender gave me a bottle of wine—good times.2yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
“Rose flowin’ with your chosen family.” On a mission to visit every lesbian bar in the states over the next year. Next up is lipstick lounge in Nashville. Where to next?!2yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
Favorite work vibe: Lesbian ready to go camping for the weekend (I am actually never ready to go camping, but open to trying.)3yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
My life is spiraling out of control but at least my hair is spiraling in the right direction.3yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
I need to clean up my bathroom, my mirror, and my internalized homophobia4yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
In the wise words of Taylor Alison Swift, “If the shoe fits, walk in it, everywhere you go.”3yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
Farmer’s market lesbian meets alternative lesbian aesthetic1yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
“And it turns out I’m harder to forget, than I was to leave...and I bet you think about me.”2yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
Taken yesterday for a socially distant outdoor wedding. First time wearing a tie in public, and it was in front of my family! Baby steps.4yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
First ever (bow)Tie Tuesday, was too chicken to wear it to work but maybe next week...?4yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/dykesgonemild
“Don’t you worry your pretty little mind, people throw rocks at things that shine”3yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
My department isn’t one affected, but s/o to the healthcare workers in this Covid-19 mayhem that are dealing with it. From your friendly NP: wash your hands, socially distance, stop buying all the toilet paper.4yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/dykesgonemild
Still haven’t cleaned my windows but I discovered the men’s t shirt section of Target.3yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
Literally in the closet but I’m coming out if it more and more.3yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
I got an undercut this week so I feel kinda bad ass. You can’t see it when my hair is down, so maybe an invisible badass...?4yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
Waiting for my own lesbian Christmas hallmark movie to happen...3yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
Closer to fine at 29! Today is my birthday and I’m embracing my new life as I look to 30!3yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/dykesgonemild
Petition to rename the target men’s section the queer women’s section.3yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
“Then people gonna treat you better, you’re gonna find, yes you will, that you’re beautiful as you feel.”3yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
Celebrating 30 in Vegas this weekend, here’s to the end of a decade but the start of an age!2yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
Smiling because the sun is out and the day is beautiful!4yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
During quarantine I’ve managed to run nearly every day, work on some writing projects, cleaned my entire house several times over and start a garden, but I’ve been wearing this hoodie for days and need to wash my hair. Can’t win ‘em all.4yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
Contemplating my thanksgiving dinner outfit now that I’m out to family. Too gay?3yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
Reminder: you haven’t yet met all the people who are going to LOVE you2yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
Under a tree listening to Red (Taylor’s Version) ft. The Leaf Stuck in My Hair2yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
Grab your docs and your beanies lesbians we’re doing brunch3yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
I’m not in a department that would have to directly deal with Covid-19 right now, but s/o to all the healthcare workers who are. Wash your hands and socially distance, ladies!4yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
Over here relating to the Fearless re-recordings way more as a 30 year old separated lesbian than I did as a 17 year old.3yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
Dolly Parton wrote “light of a clear blue morning” after driving away from the hardest breakup of her life, and in the weeks of me officially moving out of my marriage and into my new life, I’ve kept it on repeat. It’s been a long 2 years but now every day I see the light of a clear blue morning.3yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
Happy Mother’s Day to you LBL moms. Trying to navigate life while caring for tiny humans is hard, but hopefully we will raise our kids to know themselves like we never knew ourselves.4yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
Up extra early this past week to vote, but it was worth it! Happy Selfie Sunday!4yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
First breakup and in need of attention, send help and coffee.3yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/dykesgonemild
Upgraded my industrial and lobes: titanium rose gold with white opals and a couple CZ’s. Would a daith look good here?5yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/piercing
It’s August 1st so it’s time to make August by Taylor Swift my entire personality again2yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/latebloomerlesbians
Finally at 2g! I love the all gold/rose gold look but I’m excited to buy more tunnels/plugs and ear skins now that I plan on camping out at this size for the foreseeable future.4yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/Stretched
“Leave all your love and your longing behind, you can’t carry it with you if you want to survive.”3yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/dykesgonemild
Just starting stretching, 14g. Goal is to stay small and not go above 2 or 0g. This community has been so helpful!5yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/Stretched
I posted my left ear a few weeks ago, here’s my right ear with CZ’s, white opals in titanium rose/yellow gold! Can’t wait to add a conch one day.5yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/piercing
New titanium daith, totally in love! I’m thinking orbital for a third lobe to connect to my second to finish this ear off, what do you think?5yr ⋅ TSFearNowRedRep89 ⋅ r/piercing