Me when I’m doing history homework

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I’m doing my part

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First weekend presenting as myself and wearing makeup—I know I need to work on eyeliner haha. Do I pass? And if I do, what other things can I do to make myself look even prettier? (18/MtF/2 Months HRT)

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Apparently my potential college has an attack force based on this site—an utterly vicious attack force in the greatest way possible

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Top ten criminals of history

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Noobs waisting there time 😏

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39: When the headmaster of the all-boys boarding school I went to 3 years ago sends me an unexpected email telling me he cares deeply about me as a student and wishes me the best in becoming the young woman I am, meanwhile my parents deny my existence, mitigate expression, and try to “fix” me.

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Seems reasonable

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When you accidentally out yourself to your parents

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Transgenda_irl

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Chances are I’m fucked

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Okay Contrapoints is now my favorite YouTuber ever

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Me when I go on trans selfie subreddits and see all the girls that are cuter than I could ever hope to be

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The most useful gif you’ll ever need. You’re welcome, Clod.

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MRW I go to hang out with another MtF my friend said is kinda like me, and we turn out to be literally the same person and HELLA compatible. First time I’ve gone out presenting, and we even shared her first kiss I’m just AHHHHHH she might see this post too so in that case: hi Emma you’re amazing!!!!

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My dumbass didn’t realize that I needed to pick up my tips until yesterday, 2 months into working for Starbucks. It’s a good day.

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Supporting tall trans friends like:

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56: When I realize that the internet filter my parents set up is automatically flagging any site with “transgender” in the title as pornography

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Me_irl

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28: When my mom gets suspicious of my outings and tells me that I can trust her with anything and that she won't judge me (even though only three years ago I came out and was sent to a Christian rehab)

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This one frame is bothering me so much

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An interesting title

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Ace_irl

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When you hear that Disney is actually catering to their fans now

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When you don’t listen to your therapist and come out to your religious parents, only to get kicked out onto the streets as predicted

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38: When my mom tells me that I’m too young to understand myself, let alone my “sexuality,” and that I need to wait until I’m 23 for my brain to fully develop

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52: When I’m fixing my hair in the men’s bathroom (because I have to present as a dude rn) and one of my workshop counselors in there who knows I’m a girl says “Sorry you have to keep up this act,” then asks, “Has it always been like this?”

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Oh yes thank you YouTube algorithm

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43: When the country continues to get more and more fascist at an exponential rate and I’m just stuck in a household constantly praising the actions of these American “heroes,” making me all the more terrified about my future as a fruitful trans woman in society

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When you go into your local ice cream parlor and they have cotton candy flavor, but there’s no blue coloring in it, meaning you can’t post a picture to annoy TERFS like you had originally planned to

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73: MRW my formally-thought-to-be-transphobic sister actually speaks up against how my parents are treating me, saying that they should be looking more in depth to how they can ease my dysphoria.

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When your friends have your back (I can’t even—this is too much)

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Closet_irl

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When I am out eating sushi with my unsupportive parents who know that I might be trans (but have done everything they can to “fix” me), and the waitress happens to be trans, resulting in a petrifying feeling of tension within each of us

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Completely ruined

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When you accidentally out yourself to your parents

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When your friend comes out to you as trans

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When someone I thought was a friend starts explain why she thinks aces are plotting to “desexualize the LGBT community”

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Title

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5: When I come out to my friend from school on Instagram who I heard was supportive, but find out I accidentally came out to a 13-year-old with the same name (who also goes to my school). However, said 13-year-old turns out to be supportive and adorable about it!

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46: When someone at my LGBT youth center tells me they thought I was a cis girl before I introduced myself

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Wait... what?

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On god oh fuck my hands sweaty

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Frugal living

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44: When I finally tell my sister everything and she is very accepting, asks good questions, and all in all makes the discussion a fun one, but she asks me why I waited so long to tell her all of this stuff, even if we do live in a southern baptist household.

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Closet_irl

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8: When I finally come up with the plan to have my friend order me an Uber to go the local LGBT+ youth center so I can get help, because not only do I have a tracker on my car, but I can’t use my card for Uber since my parents watch my bank account

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When your guy friends are all straight virgins with no chance, so you set out to become the ultimate catgirl to help them out

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45: When I’m at work at my grocery store in the red part of the already red North Carolina, and I go to check a woman’s ID and it shows an “M” marker

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OwO what’s this?

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41: When my parents tell me that I can finally tell my sister about what’s been going on with me, just so long as I don’t try to “indoctrinate” her or something

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35: When my sister sees my phone lock screen, which has the trans colors on it in a geometric pattern for ultimate subtlety, and she tells me that she “really likes my beach colors”

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70: When I shave my legs for the first time and take all the necessary precautions, but then wake up the next morning.

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67: When my sister, who I thought was against me being trans, actually takes me to a thrift store and helps me pick out feminine clothes, despite the fact that my parents would be infuriated to find out she was doing this

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55: When my boss who I’m out to offers to change my nametag for me, but I decline knowing that friends of my parents and students of my private Christian school shop at the store

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The real issues

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40: When my dad talks to me about everything, tells me that no matter what happens I’m welcome in the house, and while he isn’t sure I’m ready for these decisions, he believes that some people actually live successful lives as trans; also, he would like to have more open conversations about this

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30: When my mom, out of nowhere, decides to finally let me get a smartphone, and I have to act like I haven’t actually had one in secret for a year now

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This but literally

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25: When Pride month finally arrives and I can initiate extremely subtle ways of showing my identity without actually outing myself

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Browsing YouTube in a nutshell

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49: When I get gendered correctly by a complete stranger for the first time in my entire life, then they “correct” themselves when they hear my voice, but I’m too scared to correct them since I’m with my mom at a Chick-fil-A

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[Pre-everything Closet-Girl] First attempt at makeup gone... well! I like the result!

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I’ll take the novel, thank you

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🍳🥚

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64: When someone tells me that they won’t use my name or pronouns until I have “fully transitioned”

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Egg_irl

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Me_irl

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58: When I had a bad day (church being what it is), and one of my friends from the LGBT center (and her mom, no less) lets me crash at their place for a few hours to do literally nothing but drink a cup of coffee, lay on the couch, and enjoy the peaceful serenity of not dealing with transphobes

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The LGBTQ+ Youth Center I visited today has a fridge with magnet poetry. It's over /u/SkulGurl! I have the high ground!

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MFW I explain to someone that I’m girl, I use female pronouns, and I have a preferred name, yet they continue misgendering me and deadnaming me because they “like me better as a guy”

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Me_irl

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9: When I find out that I can buy Uber gift cards, and I do. Then, this morning I decide to put aside my apprehensions and tell my mom I’m going to work later today, when I’m actually going to go to the local LGBT+ Youth Center

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36: My brain when my transphobic dad tells me to celebrate Father’s Day

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31: When I’ve literally tried every possible technique I’ve seen on the internet regarding shaving my facial hair, but yet I still end up swamped with ingrown hairs and red pigmentation

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76: When my friend teaches me how to tuck, and the sensation is anything but comfortable... but apparently that means I’m doing it right?

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63: When I get A TRANSBIAN GIRLFRIEND HOLY SHIT THIS IS AMAZING but I know we’ll inevitably have to split up when I go off to college in over a year. So many emotions. This probably the wrong thing to do, but we both expressed equal love for each other and couldn’t stay just friends after everything

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Found on r/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

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29: When I get a new coworker whose name is also Maddie, but I get slightly dysphoric every time I hear it because I’m still closeted and go by my deadname

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When the therapist finally offers to help you begin transition

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Welp, looks like I’m not coming out to my parents any time soon...

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60: When everybody is posting pastel pictures, but I have a journal to keep and karma to farm

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11: When I really want to go back to the Youth Center today, but it would look insanely suspicious to my parents if I say I’m hanging out with friends for 7 hours, the same time and length of my “work shift” yesterday

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68: When I realize that I could legally start hormones in three months, but then I look at my bank account

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7: When I realize that because I put all of my trust exclusively in the seniors that are graduating, I'm gonna have to start completely from scratch, building a trust circle in a hostile environment

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r/coaxedintoasnafu

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Egg_irl

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34: When I was almost out of BB cream (that I would never tell anyone in my family about), and I go into my bathroom today, reach for my secret hiding spot, and find a new, full tube.

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50: When my workshop group leader literally asks us if we have any specific names/pronouns we prefer, and I get nervous and say “no” even though it’s probably a completely safe environment

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77: When school starts once again at my homophobic and transphobic private school that has expelled LGBT students in the past, and my friend tells me there’s a new student who is blindly telling people he’s gay

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37: When my mom approaches me about the “elephant in the room” and I end up confirming I’m still trans after all these years, but she says that it probably has to do with hormone levels, and I accidentally agree to getting a hormone checkup, which will probably lead her to find validity for her side

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Pt 4: When the therapist calls and you have a great discussion with her, get set up with great resources, but are told that you can't come in for an appointment because, as a minor, you must have parent consent for therapy

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In Avengers: Infinity War (2018), Thanos tells Thor that he “should have aimed for the head” after getting empaled by Stormbreaker, because all Thanos needs to do is snap his fingers to win, and the ability to control his fingers is reliant on him having an operational brain—located in his head.

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13: When I meet another girl at the youth center who says that she visits r/Traa (and now I gotta watch what I post/comment extra carefully)

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Egg_irl

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72: When my parents sit me down with my sister and my drunk mom goes on a long rant about how I’m not mentally developed, that God will correct my ways, that I’m going to Hell, that I should just be like the other boys, etc.

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Egg_Irl

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When one of my classmates uses me as an example of a princess while I am still in the closet, but I know they were really doing it to be funny because I have long hair and constantly drop hints that I’m a girl

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Unsupportive moms when they care more about extended family than their own child

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When you are pre-everything and want to get started with voice-training, and all the tutorials say to sing along with female vocalists, but all you achieve is ruining your voice after singing too hard.

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Me_irlgbt

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Pearl vs Peridot: Robot Wars (Circa 2015, Colorized)

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MRW my drunk mom lets it slip that she was snooping in my email inbox and found a draft for my college essay that very clearly details my problems with my family and how being trans has affected that

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The true answer to everyone’s salt cravings

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TooMeIrlForMeIrl

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The Great Dioxide Authority

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51: When I finally out myself to a group of around 30 people and the world doesn’t explode

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He could save others from homophobia, but not himself

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If you’ve seen Solo, you aren’t a real Star Wars fan

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26: When I’ll have to go to the beach with my transphobic family and extended family, and can’t access Reddit for the entire week because that would require a smartphone they don’t know I have

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10: When I finally go to the Youth Center and have the time of my life, meet amazing people, and experience validation I’ve never received before, but then realize that to do this again would require a very good excuse—my paycheck will reflect me not working, and I’m running out of cash for Uber

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32: When I tell a trusted coworker about my situation, and she offers to drive me to and from the youth center for half the price I would pay the Uber, and I accept

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Saw this at an antique shop and instantly thought of y’all

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MRW one of my coworkers randomly asks me if I like pickles, but says she is just generally curious when I ask her why

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59: When my trans friend, after we hung out at her place and watched a movie on her laptop, texts me that she really wanted to cuddle with me, but wasn’t sure if I’d be comfortable with that.

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57: When I don’t get called into work and can visit the LGBT youth center

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I’m being harassed help

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This just in....

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14: When I get headpats for the first time in my entire life, from multiple catgirls no less, and continue to receive unmatched validation and care—something I have never experienced before—leaving me an emotional mess upon my return home

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Finally, the answer to all of our questions

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When I finally reached out to a therapist in secret, got a response, and sent a message back with a time we could call, but now I’m super anxious because she hasn’t responded even though I know it’s because she has training all this week and she’ll respond in a few days

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Egg_irl

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For all the other Marbles facing the same disservice as RN3....

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24: When my Uber taking me home from the youth center pulls onto my street and I see my parents standing in the driveway

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Pt 3: When you are about to call your new therapist and begin getting super nervous because you’ve never done this before

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Bibi passed away 😔

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When the therapist I reached out to under my parents noses gets back to me, even though I thought they said they would be busy for a week

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EVERY VOTE COUNTS

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27: When one my friends that I looked up to for standing against my homophobic school posts, out of nowhere, some anti-nonbinary and aphobic bullshit on Instagram

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Yup

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75: Me meeting /u/Juno-girl for coffee IRL today, after finding out we live really close to each other (2018, Colorized)

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Had a theater production at my school, so I got some guilt-free eyeliner on. Being in the closet, there is no way I am not going to milk this look for everything it’s worth

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just ben solo eating a sausage sandwich, minus the cape. Qualifies per rules, i assume?

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MRW I respond to my unsupportive parents calling my RealName out, and then realize that they were actually talking to my cat that has the same name.

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69: When I notice that if I am to afford HRT without my parents’ insurance down the road, I’m going to have to work far more hours than I currently am

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66: Me to myself when I get upset and feel like I’m being stabbed over and over by emotions because my transbian girlfriend just broke up with me. Yet, I knew this was a possibility in the first place, and we were just testing the waters anyway.

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The new Sith Capital Ship is available for play in Hero Starfighters

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If only transitioning was as easy as applying a filter....😪

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17: When I’m going to see Solo later tonight, and I’m more excited to get more quotes to relate to my dysphoric-filled life than ever

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Lol

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FTM_irl

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TMW you click into a profile and see this

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15: When my mom asks me what I did with my friends yesterday and I blank on any explanations, but then manage to regain mental footing and come up with a convincing lie

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Me_irl

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