Waving the gender nonconforming pride flag for the sixth year at Chicago Pride. It's so important now more than ever to give visibility to all gender minorities as our rights are under attack.10mo ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/NonBinary
There's no shame in boys being feminine. Personally, I find it to be empowering and liberating.3yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/ainbow
I decided to dress casual for pride weekend, so I just wore my rainbow socks, not thinking anything of it. Lo and behold, while running errands I had 6 different people including customers and even cashiers telling me, I love your socks! That really brightened my day!3yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/ainbow
GOP: Customers should never have to prove whether they are vaccinated to enter a place of business without a face mask. Also GOP: Customers must prove what genitals they have before using the restroom at a place of business.3yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/ainbow
Does anybody else find it ironic how transphobes say A man is always a man! in response to trans women, but as soon as a cisgender male wears a skirt, these bigots turn around and say Are there no more real men?, is if to suggest that a mere piece of cloth can change a person's gender.3yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/ainbow
One of the reasons I dress the way I do is to show that anyone can be a femboy regardless of age1yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/Androgynoushotties
A lot of people don't realize that boys can look good in leggings. That's why as a femboy, I'm trying normalize the look so one day we can all enjoy cozy and comfy leggings!2yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/pansexual
A butch lesbian(?) mocked me as I left Taco Bell uttering Jesus f*cking Christ!. Ironically she was wearing a baseball cap, overalls, and work boots with a buzz cut. Nothing like hating on effeminate men, while fully embracing masculinity. Internalized misogyny much?4yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/ainbow
I really like my new high-waisted shorts. Talk about gender euphoria, I really feel happy being me!3yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/NonBinary
After my last post wearing short shorts in public which caused a huge amount of controversy on here, I figured this time I'll go out in short shorts and a crop top because why not? I dress for myself, not for the haters :)2yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/NonBinary
Even though gender nonconforming people have been influential in LGBTQ activism since Stonewall, our flag is consistently forgotten in every pride flag guide. So each year I make it my goal to travel to Chicago to wave the original flag at Chicago Pride.4yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/QueerVexillology
I just saw this post on a femboy sub, and it reminded me why we need the term ambiphobia. These types of stories are all too common, and it's unfortunate that femboys are still so misunderstood even in the LGBTQ community.8mo ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/ainbow
There are many different ways to be androgynous, and it doesn't have to be masculine leaning.3yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/Androgynoushotties
Standing outside the historic gay nightclub where I first came out of the closet as genderqueer 21 years ago. It is now being demolished to make way for an apartment building.2yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/NonBinary
For the longest time I thought I had to pass as a girl and give up all aspects of masculinity to be a femboy. But then I realized that I don't need others' approval to be a femboy. I can express any combination of masculinity or femininity, and I can appreciate and celebrate my body.2yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/NonBinary
They told me it was just a phase, and I'd get over it. 21 years later I'm still here and still queer.3yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/NonBinary
I always have a difficult time deciding what to buy when I'm shopping for cute clothes.2yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/NonBinary
I wasn't able to go to Pride in Chicago this year, so instead I waved the gender nonconforming flag outside of our city building to celebrate gender expression being added to our Human Rights Ordinance.3yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/QueerVexillology
They said it was just a phase, but after 22 years I'm still happiest being feminine!3yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/genderfluid
One of the reasons I dress the way I do is because so many people today seem to equate male fashion freedom with skirts and crop tops. Yet there are so many unique and exciting options to embrace femininity besides just skirts and crop tops.3yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/NonBinary
I think a lot of people forget that it's totally valid to be an androgynous femboy. Passing as a girl is not a requirement.3yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/Androgynoushotties
They said my being a goth-boi was just a phase. But here it is 20 years later, and I am even more goth and more femme than before.2yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/GothStyle
For the longest time I thought I had to pass as a girl or give up all aspects of masculinity to be a femboy. But then I realized that I can express any combination of masculinity and femininity, even both at one once, and it's okay 💕2yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/NonBinary
I'm SO thankful this community exists. When I post on femboy subs, I get so much hate. People saying that I'm f*ckin weird, that I make us all look bad, that I reinforce a negative stereotype, that I f*ck everyone over by going out in public. At least here I feel accepted :34yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/NonBinary
I can't wait for the day when guys can celebrate body positivity too. Besides I think boyish butts are worthy of appreciation, so why hide it behind baggy clothes?4yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/NonBinary
I think a lot of people assume that being a femboy means being in love with skirts, but I rarely wear skirts at alol. I just like to be cute and pretty 😊2yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/pansexual
One of the reasons I dress as I do is to help combat sexism and homophobia. No longer should boys have to be ashamed of their bodies or dress straight for the comfort and approval of heterosexual men.4yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/NonBinary
Gender nonconformity exists along a spectrum, so there isn't realistically a hard-line distinction to being queer vs not being queer. Ultimately queerness is a state of mind, subject to one's lived experience. It's not a singular attribute, measurable by an outside observer.1yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/ainbow
That monumental day when a black crossdresser, drag queen, sex worker, AND trans rights activist makes the front page of Google. I've waited my whole life for this moment. I'm literally crying right now!4yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/genderqueer
Even as society tries to tell males to cover up more (because their body is deemed shameful) and to tell females to cover up less (because their body is deemed sexual), I refuse to play along with such binary gender mandates.2yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/NonBinary
For the longest time I thought I had to pass as a girl and give up all aspects of masculinity to be a femboy. But then I realized that I can express any combination of masculinity and femininity, even both at one once, and it's okay.2yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/Androgynoushotties
Even though Sears Tower is no longer the world's tallest building, it still holds plenty of other records.11mo ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/skyscrapers
As I was walking through the park, a college girl stopped and exclaimed, I love the purple! You look SO GREAT!. Then, at the bus terminal, a mother turned and told me, I love that outfit, esp. those socks! I mean the whole outfit is cute. But those socks look REALLY good!2yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/NonBinary
Today was my 43rd birthday, so I went shopping at Target where I bought my first clothes when I came out 20 years ago.4yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/lgbt
As some may recall, I spoke before the Champaign City Council in 2019 about adding gender identity and gender expression to the Human Rights Ordinance. They agreed to the proposal last November. We now have full LGBTQIA protections. Thanks to those who showed support!3yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/UIUC
Attempted suicide by gender nonconforming youth is over double the national average, so I created this graphic to memorialize the lives lost due to murder and suicide in the past decade.4yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/ainbow
There's a lot of variation and nuance that a strict cis/trans binary simply doesn't account for.2mo ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/ainbow
I just discovered an amazing pattern within the pride flags -- not sure if anyone else has noticed this before?1yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/QueerVexillology
There's literally nothing that makes me happier than when I can present as my true self4yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/NonBinary
I recreated the RPAN airtime counter for Twitch. It includes a chatbot that reports remaining airtime, as well as an overlay and a dock for OBS. Airtime can be added by following subscribing, or cheering.1yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/pan
One of the reasons I dress the way I do, is to show how there are many other ways to be a cute femboy that don't involve crop tops, thigh highs, fishnets, garters, and miniskirts.2yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/NonBinary
One of the reasons I dress the way I do is because I want to finally destroy the myth that men are more visual than women. I've found when I dress in revealing clothes like women do, I get more positive attention from women, including compliments on the street and at stores.2yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/NonBinary
I was banned from /r/lgbt for pointing out that it can be scary to be openly gender nonconforming and sharing a pride flag to encourage people to express their true selves without judgment. When I asked why I was banned, I was muted.4yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/subredditcancer
15 years ago I coined the word freedressing. It's now 2019, and I'm still relishing the freedom to present as my true self regardless of binary gender stereotypes 👠5yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/lgbt
With all the walking and lifting I did last month, I'm really happy with my figure. I still need to work a bit on my tummy, but my legs are getting nicely toned again.2yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/sissyfitness
That awkward moment when someone comments on my photo, You DON'T PASS! You are terrifying. Like, you clearly didn't get the memo that I don't care about your gender binary nonsense. I'm doing my own thing.4yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/NonBinary
Even as mainstream media and fashion still teaches boys from a young age that the male body below the waist is shameful and must be hidden behind oversized baggy clothes at all times, I will actively defy such taboos and celebrate body positivity too. The future is androgyny!2yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/Androgynoushotties
One of the reasons I dress the way I do, besides the fact my femininity is NOT a choice, is because people treat me so much nicer. I hope that some day everyone can present as their true self.3yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/NonBinary
I was soft-banned from /r/SuicideWatch just for posting that nobody would notice if I was gone. The mods never told me my post was removed, despite what the sidebar rules state. I just discovered today that I am blocked.4yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/subredditcancer
Men back then vs. men today (revised to include a man in the second photo)1yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/ainbow
The original femboy exhibitionist, proudly doing public lewd stuff since 1995 :)2yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/PublicBoys
I got kinda stiff at the hotel swimming pool. Thankfully I was only wearing my penis sleeve swimbrief, so it wasn't too obvious xD2yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/BonersInPublic
Another day living at Green Street Realty. The city inspector already mailed a final demand notice because of the ongoing sewer backups and other code violations. Since they don't respond, a lawsuit may finally be in the works.4yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/UIUC
It doesn't seem possible that in just a few more years I'm going to be 50 years old, and yet I'm still a femboy. Proof that you can be a femboy at any age!1yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/Androgynoushotties
It's officially done, RPAN is now completely gone and Space Goat has returned home 😢1yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/pan
My go-to outfit for fall weather is hoodie, leggings, and booties. I like being cute and androgynous! ^_^3yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/androgyny
On the left is a picture of how I used to dress masculine at the gay nightclub where I worked, since the gay staff were very transphobic. On the right is a picture of how I now dress feminine when I stream online where I am appreciated for being my true self!2yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/bisexual
I was banned in under 5 minutes from /r/legaladviceofftopic for asking whether psychiatry is the only business where it is legal to imprison law-abiding paying customers. Moderator ignores PMs, offers no explanation.5yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/subredditcancer
Did you know? The gender nonconforming pride flag was the first to acknowledge that not all people are cis or trans.10mo ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/QueerVexillology
I think it's about time that boys can be comfy and cute in leggings too!4yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/androgyny
Tumblr sent me an email today saying my blog turned 3 years old even though I haven't logged into Tumblr for over four years and I created my blog in 2014.3yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/tumblr
Out and about shopping in my favourite hoodie and leggings. I lurve purrrple :D4yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/femboy
I know a lot of you liked my previous post at the dancewear shop. So here's another pic I took standing near the front window chatting with the owner about her plant collection. She didn't even mind my super stiffy being on display at all UwU2yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/FemBoys
One of the reasons I dress as I do is to help combat sexism and homophobia -- hence why girls are told to be proud of their bodies and to dress for themselves, yet boys are supposed to be ashamed of their bodies and to dress straight for the comfort and approval of heterosexual men.4yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/androgyny
Someone on /r/lgbt insisted that trans women invented the trans community. I explained that most of the pioneers of trans rights were butch lesbians, drag queens, or agender. My response was downvoted then deleted by moderators. So I decided to make this infographic.4yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/agender
I will never understand the double-standard of modesty that applies to men -- I see posts removed from subs like crossdressing and femboy for being NSFW, even though a woman could wear the exact same outfit with no objections.4yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/NonBinary
I don't know who this Karen is. But from my reading I have none of her traits. I'm spiritualist. I don't drive. I don't have kids. I don't speak to managers. I don't pry into other people's lives. I don't judge other people for being themselves. I'm myself, not your ridiculous gender stereotype.4yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/Androgynoushotties
It's hard to believe that in a few more years I'll be 50. I just want to be a kid again!2yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/femboy
I've found that I get so many more compliments from random strangers when I push male gender norms to their logical extreme. It still takes a lot of courage, but I've learned that people respond more favourably when they perceive someone to be confident and secure in themselves.2yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/NonBinary
Join us Monday, August 14 as we celebrate the anniversary of America's second-longest running industrial alternative club night, now streaming on Twitch. All oldskool, all night long!9mo ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/industrialmusic
It doesn't seem possible that I've been going out in leggings for over 20 years now, hoping to normalize leggings for guys. Here are some of my favourite looks from the past decade.2yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/MenInLeggings
I was filling out a police report today, and I was really surprised that they listed Nonbinary as an option. Happy day!2yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/NonBinary
Sometimes I get stiff when wearing leggings, but it's just a normal, healthy part of being male and nothing to be ashamed of.2yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/MenInLeggings
A lot of youth today think that living outside of society's binary gender expectations requires identifying as another gender to be valid. So I devised an alternate paradigm of gender variance that obviates the need for excessive self-labeling, so people can just be themselves.4yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/genderqueer
Finally getting back into coding after taking a 6 months. Developed a fully fledged A* pathfinder library in Lua for an open-source voxel game with support for waypoints. Huzzah!4yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/transprogrammer
It's been 20 years since I came out as bisexual, so today I am wearing my pretty rainbow t-shirt I bought at Target! I hope you all have a fabulous #ComingOutDay4yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/lgbt
Many teens today think identifying as another gender is necessary to look, feel, and act masculine or feminine. So I coined the term freedressing so people can embrace freedom of expression without the pressure of even more categories and labels.4yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/gender_detox
There is a thread on Twitter exploding about whether Femboy is a transmisogynist slur. The comebacks, tho, are pretty stellar. Apparently, there are still trans women that regard effeminate males as a direct threat to the legitimacy of their identity.4yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/genderqueer
Friendly reminder that gender nonconforming people are part of the community too. Even if we're not transgender or nonbinary, we are still are valid and in need of support, acceptance, and visibility!5yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/lgbt
The LGBT movement was founded on diversity and inclusion. Together we stand until we've achieved full equality!5yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/lgbt
A lot of youth today think that living outside of society's binary gender expectations requires identifying as another gender to be valid. So I devised an alternate paradigm of gender variance that obviates the need for excessive self-labeling, so people can just be themselves.4yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/agender
A fire and mold-ridden student apartment complex sat for 6 months in decay (Champaign, IL)5yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/urbanexploration
It's too bad someone doesn't create a survey that covers the experiences of GNC people. The NTDS used to account for all gender minorities, now it is exclusively about trans and nonbinary folks. It's yet another example of how GNC people are being steadily eliminated from all LGBTQ advocacy.2yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/GenderNonConforming
Even the Doctor knows that gender variance is more complex than just a dichotomy.4yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/NonBinary
I hope this photo is acceptable here. I know I can't pass for a woman. If it breaks the rules, please message me and I'll gladly remove it.5yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/crossdressing
Wore my panties and a crop top to the laundromat tonight. I felt so naughty :35yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/FemBoys
This heat wave will be over soon, so I'm trying to wear all my summery outfits while I still can :D5yr ⋅ sorcerykid ⋅ r/femboy
