Spotted this scrolling through IG. I feel like these could apply to how a lot of us feel here.5yr ⋅ moonmakeswaves ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
An awesome text from mom... I’m sure me not responding will cause her to panic and beg me to tell her I’m okay.5yr ⋅ moonmakeswaves ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
When the enmeshed system starts to crumble. Go to therapy and I’ll be there for Christmas. I’ve stated my NC-if-no-therapy boundary countless times.3yr ⋅ moonmakeswaves ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Flying monkey SIL sent me this. TLDR: “I know your mom abused you but you just need to forgive her and move on.” LMAO BYE3yr ⋅ moonmakeswaves ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Interesting... Trying to turn my boundary back around onto me and put words in my mouth. This is so frustrating and sad.4yr ⋅ moonmakeswaves ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
Trying to navigate grey rocking. Feeling guilty for ignoring my uBPD mother now that I’m moved out and on my own. It’s hard to keep the thoughts away, telling me I’m being too harsh and not seeing things correctly. But on the other hand I know I don’t need to justify my “no”. Ugh.4yr ⋅ moonmakeswaves ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
The result of my grey rocking. Texts from my uBPD mom. I’m now having anxiety and feel like my stomach is dropping. She does this about every few months. I’m living with her and am almost to graduation but these past couple of months feel like eternity.5yr ⋅ moonmakeswaves ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
(White) Messages to me this morning from my uBPD mother. (Black) Flying monkey messages to my SO after she received no response from me. This was all in the span of ONE hour.4yr ⋅ moonmakeswaves ⋅ r/raisedbyborderlines
