You could not tell me 3 years ago (2020, left) that I'd be happily on a cold beach in Margate in just my trunks (2023, right) - hard work and positive mental health pays off! Never been happier.11mo ⋅ Ellen_Degenerates86 ⋅ r/gaybros
This really resonated with me: I find it odd when people take such pride in telling me I would never have guess you were gay! like covert homoing is innately better than being camp, a good gay thing? You just some how double insulted me, Steve from IT.3yr ⋅ Ellen_Degenerates86 ⋅ r/gaybros
Last Year I Was 90kg, sad, an alcoholic and barely functioned. Today I'm 67kg, kind sober & fully dressed and it wouldn't be without the support of on & off line people. If I can do it, literally anybody can.3yr ⋅ Ellen_Degenerates86 ⋅ r/gaybros
Update from last year - I rearranged my the living space to be a cosy, not-to-everybody's-tastes Mid Century Hobbit HoleTM2yr ⋅ Ellen_Degenerates86 ⋅ r/malelivingspace
I'm 37. I'm reading this post about being old. I get reminded to take my meds. I'm feeling VERY attacked right now.11mo ⋅ Ellen_Degenerates86 ⋅ r/FinalFantasyVII
Gran, 81, who has 'best sex' with toyboy, 36, fills headlines with pointless drivel3yr ⋅ Ellen_Degenerates86 ⋅ r/NobodyAsked
I posted earlier this year to really positive responses, and during the lockdown I've been able to finish off the lounge. Perfect for me (probably too busy for some, but a change to all the grey I usually see here, right?)4yr ⋅ Ellen_Degenerates86 ⋅ r/malelivingspace
My First Space: Solo living room evolving as I understand the space better. Moved everything around, *more* posters, new furniture, still loving my breakfast bar/couch combo!4yr ⋅ Ellen_Degenerates86 ⋅ r/malelivingspace
Hobbies, you say? I enjoy making clothes; below is a shirt a sewed a couple weeks back!1yr ⋅ Ellen_Degenerates86 ⋅ r/gaybros
My TV just went mental and Netflix UK thinks Dolly Parton is the Yorkshire Ripper...3yr ⋅ Ellen_Degenerates86 ⋅ r/CasualUK
I made my very first shirt, and I'm pretty happy with how the heavy pattern holds up when combined.1yr ⋅ Ellen_Degenerates86 ⋅ r/sewing
UPDATE: I posted a before & after yesterday that got traction and so amazing I can help give even a small bit of advice to people! But comments I don't smile in the after so here's me busy working on bits AND smiling!3yr ⋅ Ellen_Degenerates86 ⋅ r/gaybros
At my lowest financial point, I was in £15k debt, but having spent the last 10 years fixing that I'm about to break even aged 34. On an entirely unrelated topic, this was the game my family played every weekend of my childhood:3yr ⋅ Ellen_Degenerates86 ⋅ r/CasualUK
Well, we all know where this is going. And remember, it's very cold before passing judgement ;)3yr ⋅ Ellen_Degenerates86 ⋅ r/XFiles
(Spotted in London) We all know we came for Scully and Mulder's chemistry, but we stayed for:4yr ⋅ Ellen_Degenerates86 ⋅ r/XFiles
Harriet Walter having the absolute best week playing chaotic mums in TV Finales11mo ⋅ Ellen_Degenerates86 ⋅ r/TedLasso
Harriet Walter having a great week playing chaotic mum's in Series Finales this week!11mo ⋅ Ellen_Degenerates86 ⋅ r/SuccessionTV
I'm sorry but Priyanka really DID THAT in her Come Through vid. The best a queen has looking in time!2yr ⋅ Ellen_Degenerates86 ⋅ r/rupaulsdragrace
Why won't people enlist, ya snowflakes! (Wonder if the creator is ready to run into battle...)4yr ⋅ Ellen_Degenerates86 ⋅ r/TheRightCantMeme
There are worse places to have a lunch break. Primrose Hill 2pm, 02/27/204yr ⋅ Ellen_Degenerates86 ⋅ r/london
Well This Is Lovely. Also, it means if you're Catholic and against the Pope's leniency on on LGBT+ folk, then it's time to realise you're not a Catholic, you're a bigot...3yr ⋅ Ellen_Degenerates86 ⋅ r/gay
Keep seeing this advert on the side of buses and thinking it's Frank Gallagher going absolutely mental in a Shameless movie.2yr ⋅ Ellen_Degenerates86 ⋅ r/CasualUK
A house divided is a house united - bored or staring at my kitchen in the evenings I used blinds to divide up the space effectively!4yr ⋅ Ellen_Degenerates86 ⋅ r/malelivingspace
I just lost 5hrs of my life to this race... My first time playing; they really don't prepare you for the torture of the FFX side quests that will take longer than I've played the game!1yr ⋅ Ellen_Degenerates86 ⋅ r/FinalFantasy
I'm sorry, but how on this great Earth can RuPaul Charles judge an INTERNATIONAL DRAG competition wearing... this!? If she ever talks about somebody's taste level? HONEY...2yr ⋅ Ellen_Degenerates86 ⋅ r/rupaulsdragrace
Suit accessories advice! I just bought the below suit for a couple weddings, but I hate the red tie they suggest. Any suggestions on what to wear? I was thinking a white shirt and a bold tie / pattern clash tie, but any help would be great, different colour shirt etc.2yr ⋅ Ellen_Degenerates86 ⋅ r/mensfashionadvice
