Been a while since I posted a gender-affirming selfie and I thought my bed head was pretty cool today so... Yeah. Here you go. Sorry.2yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/NonBinary
I had my first ever job interview out as non-binary today. I got to wear an outfit I actually felt good in, introduce myself with my new name... And I GOT THE JOB!2yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/NonBinary
I did it! For the first time I legitimately, confidently came out to someone today. I told them my name, I told them my pronouns, I didn't back down, and I didn't doubt myself. Finn the Human is one happy enby rn!3yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/NonBinary
I know it's not much, but I did yoga for the first time in many months today! I used to practice 1-3 hours a day, but my mental health got in the way for a long time and I fell out of shape. I feel so much better in my body today than I have in quite a while!2yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/MadeMeSmile
I was just diagnosed with autism. I'm trying really hard not to see it as a bad thing, but man... it feels bad. I'm scared I'm never going to have the family and future that I dreamed of. I could really use a toast or two right now. 💔2yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/toastme
Are they an adult woman or a 13-year-old skater boy? The world may never know.3yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/NonBinary
Bought myself men's briefs for the first time ever and damn I feel good.3yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/Androgynoushotties
I had to define femininity for myself before I could embrace it fully 💛💜3yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/Androgynoushotties
I had a rough couple of days and really lost myself for a moment. I told myself that it was time for me to 'go back' to being a girl, so I took the pic on the left to mark the day. Then I left the house, had an amazing therapy session, came back, changed, and took the pic on the right. :)2yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/NonBinary
Life: Here, you can have a whole month to celebrate yourself without shame! 🌈 Me: Durr I'm overstimulated and dizzy durrrr3yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/TrollCoping
Looking through my 1st grade journal... Does it count if it's self-inflicted?3yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/SapphoAndHerFriend
Andro, yes; the hot part is still a work in progress. We'll get there.3yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/Androgynoushotties
Feeling super dysphoric and gross today so I'm gonna shamelessly fish for validation here.2yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/NonBinary
Got my first binder and bought a bunch of masc clothing at Goodwill yesterday. Feeling more and more like myself every day.3yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/genderfluid
Things have been tough lately, crochet is what's keeping me together. It was nice to turn my thoughts to the coming summer and make something light and cheerful. We could all use a little of that in our lives I think.3yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/Brochet
I'm literally wearing my most minimizing bralette underneath a compression cami- I'm practically binding, and the buttons are still straining. I'm so frustrated!!2yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/bigboobproblems
Relationship with my parents is... Complicated. Tonight I'm having dinner with both of them for a) the first time in 6 months, and b) the first time out as non-binary. Nervous is an understatement.3yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/NonBinary
Hiding in the bathroom at a fancy bridal shower to escape for a minute. I'm the only non-male person here not wearing a floral dress, and I was an idiot and signed my new name on the card when I'm not even out to these people yet. It's been weird, but bathroom selfies make me feel a little better 😂3yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/NonBinary
It's kind of amazing how much happier and comfier I feel presenting femme when I'm wearing my binder... Just makes me even more excited for my top surgery consult next month 😍3yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/NonBinary
I love to crochet my own clothes, but it's really hard to find patterns that aren't super femme. So I decided to start designing my own patterns for the kind of stuff I was looking for. This hat is my first baby step into a more androgynous crochet future!3yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/genderfluid
I went from putting on a false display of femininity to please others, to rejecting it all together, to learning what it means in my own context and letting myself embrace it. Feeling very pretty today. 💛💜3yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/NonBinary
Coming out as NB for the first time to a few of my closest friends today. I think I chose the right shirt.3yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/NonBinary
When you spend forever trying to find the perfect label for your experience of gender and finally just decide to make one for yourself 😎2yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/NonBinary
I did it, I finally purged my closet of all of the overly femme clothes that I've tried to force myself to wear over the years. I got sick of staring at a closet full of what, to me, are just costumes of a character I'm no longer interested in playing.3yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/NonBinary
Today's my first chance to wear the best pair of shoes I've ever found. Feel like I could take on the world with these bad boys.3yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/ThriftStoreHauls
I think I'm finally getting the hang of dressing masc! Feel pretty damn handsome today. 💅3yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/genderfluid
I'm sorry, I know I keep spamming you guys with selfies, I've just never felt this good in my own skin before! I'm finally figuring out who I've been all along, and it turns out I think I really like them. ☺️3yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/NonBinary
New here and still questioning, but this new haircut is making me feel kind of valid?3yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/NonBinary
Could really use some androgyny love, since the dating apps sure aren't showing any2yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/Androgynoushotties
Feeling dysphoric & confused. Three cheers for perpetually questioning your gender, hip hip hurray3yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/NonBinary
Just got my first ever Hobbii order... Let's just say I've got big plans!3yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/YarnAddicts
I'm meeting my Dad in person as Finn for the first time today. Feeling really nervous. Wish me (and my boy Link) some luck!3yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/NonBinary
This just popped up as my memory from 1 year ago today... the first wearable I ever designed myself! Still got the notes for them somewhere, but I never did end up publishing the pattern. I still remember these shorts fondly though. <33yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/crochet
Keep having to remind myself that wanting to embrace my femininity doesn't mean I'm an impostor.3yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/femby
This flowy top makes me feel like a real femboi and I love it 💕2yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/Androgynoushotties
This is my gender. Apparently I have synesthesia, which is probably why this image will never mean as much to anyone else as it means to me, but I thought I'd share it anyway. :)2yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/NonBinary
I usually hate dressing femme because of my chest, but this flowy top makes me look sort of flat while still being super cute. It makes me so excited for the possibility of top surgery! I'm tired of forcing myself to dress only masc because my body screams AFAB. I miss pretty blouses 💕💜2yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/NonBinary
Just learned the word femby and found this sub. I have no idea if this is where I belong yet, but I'm trying to find out!3yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/femby
I keep starting projects then getting distracted by new ideas, until eventually I'm surrounded by notes and completely paralyzed. So I came up with a way to organize them so that I can go back and forth and add to projects without losing track of where I'm at in any of them. :)2yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/adhdwomen
I was trying to take a flirty pic but I got overwhelmed with how awkward I am/look... Anyone else struggling to figure out how to be 'sexy' in a way that's actually you? I feel like melting away whenever I try to make myself seem attractive, whatever that even means. 😭2yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/NonBinary
The first 108 digits of pi! Starting with 3, I didn't think to put in the decimal point sorry.2yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/Synesthesia
This is my third attempt at the Autlish alphabet. Please tell me if you see anything wrong with it.2yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/AutismTranslated
I know I'm not actually good at drawing but I tried to sketch what it feels like to constantly be wanting to go home... When there is no home to go to.2yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/cptsdcreatives
Kinda lucked out when I found this yarn in trans/genderqueer colors haha! So of course I had to make something super queer 😊3yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/GayCrochet
Any other Umbrella Academy fans here? Have you noticed how their numbers correlate with the types? (Attempted explanation in comments)2yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/Enneagram
Curious who my equal would be? Any gender, doesn't matter to me.2yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/EqualAttraction
If I get a tattoo here, is surgery likely to distort it? It's pretty high up, right up against my collar bone, so I'm not exactly sure how that area will be affected (planning on FTNB top surgery- DI with slight amount of tissue left behind).2yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/TopSurgery
Planning on going a touch shorter but I'm uncertain about whether I should go with bangs, and if so how heavy they should be. I'm aiming for cute and badass androgyny. Which pic should I show my stylist?3yr ⋅ callmesapph ⋅ r/femalehairadvice
