another poster was told that their outfit was too skimpy, too cheap looking, too costumey. i’m posting this in solidarity because fashion has no rules [28 NB lesbian]3mo ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/lesbianfashionadvice
I constantly have to remind myself that “non-binary” doesn’t mean “androgynous”. I can’t change my features, and how I present myself thru fashion changes from day to day but I am still valid & so are you! 🦋4yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/NonBinary
colorism creates an expectation that i should have “flowing” curls but im here to challenge that. i LOVE my big fro! no i am not interested in defining curls or any of that nonsense. the frizzier — the better for me! routine in comments1yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/BlackHair
i’ve been feeling ~hella~ dysphoric lately, but a bit more comfortable in my skin today. taking it one day at a time 🕺🏽3yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/NonBinary
i had to learn to accept that there is no way to “look lesbian”. there is no outfit in the world that will stop folks from misgendering me (i’m NB) or assuming i’m into men. so ima wear what i want 🥰1yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/lesbianfashionadvice
idk who needed to hear this but it’s never an inconvenience to correct someone when they use the wrong pronouns!3yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/NonBinary
I’m going to make it a yearly tradition to post in here on my birthday since I don’t have anyone to celebrate with ~ 253yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/dykesgonemild
I would just like to thank braces, puberty, and learning to embrace myself to the fullest extent. It’s been a hard 13 years learning to accept myself and though I’m not where I want to be, I’m getting there. I wish I could go back in time and give younger me a huge hug. She needs it.4yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/blackladies
[UPDATE] Cap (and degree) secured! Thank you everyone for the suggestions and well wishes ❤️🖤🤟🏾5yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/blackladies
(asking for science) am i anyone’s type?? i live in kind of a smaller town and seriously have not had a date in several years. no prospects. no hookups. nothing. am i just undateable??? undesirable? maybe my breath stinks idk3yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/dykesgonemild
I posted in here about a year and a half ago to share my graduation picture from university. I’m back to say that I got into graduate school! Y’all understand more than anyone what the fuck this means. Here’s to Black femmes in STEM 🔬💚3yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/PMDD
I’ve been so broke that I had to seek donations in order to pay the app fee. But sure enough, I received my acceptance today at one of the top engineering schools for an MS in Geoengineering. i can finally see a glimmer of hope creeping in. Here’s to Black femmes in STEM! 🔬💚3yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/blackladies
pic for attention — which style puts less tension on the hair: knotless braids or passion twists? 😊2yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/blackladies
I had a great time visiting my family in Havana, Cuba. Any other Afro-latinas in here? Much love!5yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/dykesgonemild
I think you all understand more than anyone how hard it is to achieve literally anything with this goddamn disorder5yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/PMDD
inspired by tattootia to post this 🫶🏽 where’s all the tatted cuties at?!8mo ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/blackgirls
I posted in here asking for advice on my first set of box braids. Update as promised!5yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/blackladies
Morning routine tips? I wear a bonnet every night but when i take it off in the morning, my hair looks crazy af! I can never wear my hair for more than a day or so without needing a complete refresh or re-wash3yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/Naturalhair
Today is my birthday and no one cared enough about me to hang out so I’m spending it alone :~)5yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/actuallesbians
It took me over 12 hours to do these knotless braids, i finally looked at the back of my head and 🥴😭3yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/Naturalhair
I never have anyone to celebrate my birthday with but I’ve got plenty of k to keep me company 💞3yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/ketamine
1 year of hair growth. Routine — infrequent shampooing (~once a month), shower detangling with a wide tooth comb followed by leave-in conditioner on soaking wet hair.5yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/BlackHair
It’s honestly time to take my braids out but I’m not ready to feel extra ugly 😥 how soon before I can put them back in without damaging my hair? Any words of encouragement are welcomed 💙4yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/blackladies
should i loc my hair? i’m just wondering if it would look better than my natural fro. (i would like for only Black people to answer, thanks!!)3yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/Naturalhair
HELP!!! I graduate tomorrow and I don’t know how to get this cap to stay on my head. I tried bobby pins but it looked terrible 😭 my hair is not quite long enough for a ponytail & I refuse to straighten it5yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/blackladies
12 hours later and I have waist length faux locs! My first time doing a crochet style and it was super easy, just very time consuming. Tutorial by Jan Thea TV linked in comments 💜4yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/Naturalhair
Playing with this shape is so fun! Try it out if you have asymmetrical lids like I do4yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/HoodedEyes
The first picture was posted in here last August after getting dumped. Guess who just got dumped again? 😅5yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/dykesgonemild
This “disembodied” winged liner is SO much more flattering on my eye shape than the traditional style! I wish I would have tried it years ago. There’s so much more room to play with the length when I don’t have to accommodate for my asymmetrical hooded lids ♥️4yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/HoodedEyes
[OC] I know this is a bit different from what typically gets posted here, but I hope this is permitted! I took a gamble on a fractal tapestry from Aliexpress and it was a fail. Turned lemons into lemonade by using the material for a trippy quarantine robe. I hope you like it! <34yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/FractalPorn
This is what I was wearing when a random older white man approached me at an art gallery and proceeded to tug on my hair HARD, asking if “it’s even real”. I wonder why I bother leaving the house sometimes. I’m thinking of shaving it off to stop attracting negative attention4yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/blackladies
I’m certainly no artist but I find that trying to get pieces of my trips onto paper helps me integrate back into this reality. Not as good as other stuff on here but after seeing some of you share your doodles n things, I worked up the courage to put myself out there. Thanks for looking 🌈👁4yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/DMT
Walmart has a really high quality set of light strips and bulbs for under $30! Info in comments 👽 [not an ad]5yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/TripCaves
12 vs 24. I’m a late bloomer but I’m finally beginning to grow into myself 💜4yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/uglyduckling
Getting box braids for the first time in a few days. Any advice? Do’s & don’ts? Thanks in advance!5yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/blackladies
Will relaxer make my extremely curly eyebrows straight? or can anyone recommend any methods 🥺 i’m very insecure about my brows and would love any tips. no type of gel or edge control will tame them3yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/blackladies
I posted a pic in here a couple months ago clutching a bottle of Jameson after getting dumped. Fast-forward a couple months and I think I found someone to drink it with me :-)5yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/dykesgonemild
PLS help me with my liner 🥺 My eyelids are lopsided, and I’ve watched every hooded eye liner tutorial to no avail. I’m not sure what my eye shape is. Should I give up on winged liner altogether?4yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/HoodedEyes
ITAP of the chalkboard in my ~cancelled~ physics lecture. Happy Friday, folks!6yr ⋅ 2noserings ⋅ r/itookapicture
