My wife left me for her boss and I had to have emergency surgery on my first turn with the kids. I could really use a friend, Reddit.

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Preterm labor at 22 weeks. We've held on for a full week so far on strict bedrest at the hospital, need to make it at least one more week to give baby woodenmonkeyfaces a fighting chance. We've been waiting for this baby for nine years. Toast us, please.

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A year ago I was in the hospital for my anorexia. I was in a wheelchair, unable to walk and almost was being fed through a tube. Today I am 10 lbs heavier, eating daily and finally able to work out again without passing out every time. It is still such a struggle everyday positive words will help!

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[24M] DUI at 18, Mom kicked me out at 19. After living years in poverty for years, I got a Car, an Apartment, tons of extremely supportive friends, a steady job, and I JUST PASSED MY FIRST SEMESTER OF COLLEGE! Life turns around sometimes you just have to wait.

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I’m an “essential” employee, hauling fuel from refineries to stores and farms. I haven’t been home to see my family in 3 weeks because I’m worried I’d bring something home with me and expose them. I’m run down and dog tired, how ‘bout a toast?

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Girlfriend of 3 years just left me. I’m completely broken.

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I feel pathetic for posting this. Two years ago, I attempted to end my life. A couple of months ago, all of my college applications got denied for the third year in a row. I live in a huge city where I don‘t have any friends and sadly, my mental disorders are getting real bad. Some warmth please?

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Been struggling with hair loss for all of my puberty and had someone comment my hair in a mean way yesterday. I’m currently on a journey to self love and everyone needs a little help sometimes, right? Anyways, here is my face, hair and close up of my verification and seal of approval tee. :)

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I fell off the wagon and drank last night and this morning. I'm out of shows to watch and can't find a new one to keep me occupied during quarantine ( season finale on both my shows ended last week) And I'm dangerously close to being out of my inhaler and there is a shortage right now. Toast me?

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5 years ago I overdosed on heroin for the second time. My 2 boys woke up and heard me struggling to breath. They saved my life. They are my heroes. I made a promise that I would never touch it again and 5 years later that promise is still holds true.

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FedEx Express package delivery driver, just finished final day of a wicked peak season, stumbled upon this sub, and wanted to share with the world that I go out and bust my chops as hard as I can, and do a really good job to make sure everyone gets their stuff on/ahead of time. Happy holidays.

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In 2016, I had a near-death drowning accident that put me in ICU for 4 days. After 3 years with some people, still to this day, making jokes about me not knowing how to swim. This summer was my goal of learning to swim before school starts up. I can proudly say that I have finally learned to swim!

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First paycheck I haven't spent money on meth, haven't used in a month. Haven't been able to share the struggles with anyone.

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After three years, I [22F] was finally able to leave an abusive relationship. I’ve since been ghosted for every date I’ve scheduled. My eating disorder is starting to come back and it’s been a year since my best friend committed suicide. I’m just really sad and lonely

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[18 F] After months of waiting for a Bone Marrow Transplant I am now 50 days Post Transplant and Cancer Free. I am slowly loving myself even bald and I have become a better person because of all of this. ❤️

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Today is a very good day. I met a guy last week, we’ve been on four dates and I like him very much! I got a clean result back on a biopsy. I made the final payment on a bill I’ve been paying off for three years. AND I GOT A PROMOTION! Sharing happy vibes to everyone!

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A few months ago, I wrote a suicide note and tried to check out early. I ended up spending a week in a psychiatric hospital and finally started to see a therapist after 25 years of suffering. Didn't think I'd live long enough to see the new year, but here I am. Wish you all the best :)

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Working 12 hours almost every night in my ED in metro Atlanta. I'm tired. I'm beaten down. I'm completely isolated from everyone I love. Isolated from my support network. I'm trying to help fight Covid, but I could really just use a hug. Please wash your hands and take social distancing serious.

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60 days ago I was drugged & raped in a nightclub. After what feels like 60 whole sleepless nights, I was contacted 47 minutes ago by the state police that the attacker has finally been found and placed in custody awaiting trial. Toast to SLEEP! 🤍

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Two days ago I tried to kill myself because life was just too much for me. Today I cut my hair and managed to do my make-up, it’s nothing but I’m kinda proud of myself.

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(20,F) Suicide hotline just hung up on me and now I really have no one- gimme sum love please

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I grew up with a family that hated me and blamed me for my moms death (she pasted shortly after my birth). The physicaly and mentally attacked me daily. Last year my Girlfriend killed herself and ive been in and out of mental hospital since then. The only solution i see is death. I need this

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I made the mistake of posting on r/rateme for some validation. I'm really insecure about my face without makeup. Makes me shy to start dating people because eventually they'll realize I'm not that cute

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2 months clean and sober today. Feeling like no one in my life cares. I do. I’m incredibly proud and thankful.

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Yesterday I committed to 50 days clean! 49 to go! 🧼

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Got kicked out of High School; was told I’d never amount to anything. It’s 2020, I’m 35, and I now have my Associates and Bachelor’s degrees. I just accepted a position as College Instructor for a local community college! I went from “The Janitor” to “The Instructor” and it feels FUCKING awesome!

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6 days from now will be one of the hardest days of my life. after 3 years of waiting, I will finally have my lawsuit. I will have to face my abuser in court after 5 years of not seeing him. I would really appreciate it if you will toast me so i can read the comments when it gets a little too much.

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Our Love Story: We Met on R/Toastme, and instantly clicked. We finally met, after I flew out last week and it confirmed how perfect we were for eachother. We both had it tough but now we are on top.

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Toast me. I have no friends so I'm turning to you.

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I’m a first-gen/low-income student who got 5 full-ride scholarships. Most of my family doesn’t care, outright criticizes me, or hasn’t congratulated me. I have trouble having confidence in myself.

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Ugly Fat Black Guy: Hey I’m 22M. The pic on the right is me happy and confident. The pic on the left is me today after my workout. The guy in the left hates himself. But he’s working on controlling what he can control. Feel free to share your weight loss journey.

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22F I've been on a horrible Fentynal addiction run since Jan of 2018 and could never get up the balls to quit using... just found out I'm pregnant and I took myself straight to treatment. Today for the first time in years I have 7 days completely clean from any mind altering drug. Toast me?

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Getting a degree in Ceramics and feeling pretty shitty about choosing something I love over something practical. Would love some affirmation that I’m making an okay choice. That’s a mug I made for context ❤️

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My date cancelled on me last minute today and it was the first time I've put myself out there in ages. I'm not gonna let it stop me from trying again though!

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After I got sober 6 months ago, I changed states, got my first salaried job, lost 40lbs in water weight, gained 10 back in muscle, found my self-worth, got published in a magazine for an article I wrote about it, am rebuilding relationships, and am finally properly medicated for my bipolar disorder.

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Today is my birthday, but I can’t go out because of my immunocompromised status. I’m a little depressed... but I’m going to calm down and try to finish my drawing! Happy birthday to me?

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I did this to my previously waist length hair. My family’s acting like I murdered someone, there’s been yelling, crying and now they’re not looking or talking to me. Could use some toasting.

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Tonight I’m seven months clean from cocaine. No, quarantine has not made it easier.

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Spent the last 3 years trying to get into medical school, feeling like I wasted 7 years of my life, but last Friday I got accepted! Scared but optimistic!

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being told im not working hard enough when im trying my best and just feeling worthless in general. could do with a toast :(

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I thought I was going to do a full 20yrs in the navy. Instead I’ve completed 4 and I’m starting college today! Now I’m on my journey to be a physical therapist.

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Tomorrow I turn 34. I quit my toxic job last week, have been going to therapy, and am taking a chance to pursue my dreams. I know all of that sounds great, but my anxiety and inadequacies are kicking my ass and honestly I just need some affirmation. You're all beautiful and I love you in advance

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I've had a rough time and barely left my room the past two weeks, but I got dressed in my favourite clothes and went to the park for a while! Toast me please 🙂

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10 Years of Alcoholism, and drug abuse has come to an end. Sporting career went down the drain, countless relationships destroyed, criminal charges, hospitalizations, but i'm finally clean for the first time in my adult life, and ready to make up for lost time <3

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On Thursday I ended a relationship with a person I was madly in love with. They did not love me anymore and my heart couldn’t bare the rejection anymore. I’m thankful that I finally got the courage to end it but now my heart is shattered and I can’t seem to stop crying Everything reminds me of him.

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I'm never happy with how I look on selfies, so yesterday I decided to take some self-timer photos and I really like how these two turned out!

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I was a pack day smoker and thought it would be impossible to quit. I’ve now gone 30 days without a single cigarette! I am really craving one right now and could use a toast of encouragement

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At 22 years of age I’m retraining myself how to ride. Currently trying to stand up and ride. I’m an up and coming actor in Atlanta. Recently booked a leading role in a feature. My characters main source of transportation is his bike. So here I am. How was you’ll Thanksgiving?

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25m, broke my back, lost my job, gf broke up with me, moved back in with my parents, no friends to speak of, and pretty soon I’m going to lose my car too, I could use a little pick me up.

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I just got out of the mental hospital and found out that my mom had gone through my phone and found out I was gay. She outed me to the rest of the family. It’s been pretty unsupportive so far. I could use some kind words.

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I have a pain disorder called trigeminal neuralgia. I’ve had 2 brain surgeries this year for it and the pain has returned. I just found out I’m having a third surgery. I feel so hopeless and scared about another craniotomy. Just need some words to lift me up a bit. Thank you all

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I’m an 18 year old who neglected Math from Elementary until I graduated from High School. I finally completed the multiplication table from scratch without relying on a calculator! I feel good!

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Hey toasts! Solo dad of 3 boys in need of a toast after divorce from love of my life. Im so lonely with couple to non friends. Trying my best at coping with lonelyness. Here is me!

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I (23F) did it! I reached all my 2020 milestones! I worked out, left a relationship that wasn't good for me, didn't drink, stopped dieting, hit 5k in savings, started investing and today I got my bachelor's degree! I'm over the moon and glowing! 🥰

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26M Have had a rough month. Got robbed at gunpoint. Car broke down. Grandpa died. Trying to stay positive! Toast me

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I’[m] 29 and two years into a PhD, with two more seemingly endless years to go. I’ve never felt more inept, overwhelmed or tired in my life. I’m so proud of all my friends who are getting married, having kids and buying houses, but I feel stagnant in my own life. Needing a bit of a pick me up.

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Quite possibly the worst day I have had since my husband died. Repost because I forgot to put toast me in the photo. Help a very, very upset woman out.

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Recovering from abuse is so hard

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For the first time in my life, I actually feel like I look like myself.

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Life had been hard, but I just got a job at my dream place!

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It's my 42nd birthday today. Single for 8 years. Could do with some love ❤️

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I just passed my first semester of college with straight A's at 23!

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Could use a toasting today. A hard day to be reminded of love — my boyfriend was murdered two months ago. Trying to smile through the tears.

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Today I graduated summa cum laude with my Bachelor’s in Education and my teaching license! I‘ve had school and work full time for the past four years. I’m so humbled to finally be here, but disappointed I wasn’t able to walk to receive my diploma in front of my friends and family.

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UPDATE: She made it! They had to cut things short because her breathing was getting sketchy, but I am blessed to still have my goofy little momma with me! Thank you to everyone who got me through this long day! We appreciate you so much!

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Took me a while to gain enough confidence to post this. I'm a depressed half blind teen who's been having some serious self-loathing periods lately. I hate my physical appearance and all my personality. Musicals and the hope of being on stage someday is the only thing getting me through right now.

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Found out that my lungs are completely healed from pneumonia today!

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Caught my girlfriend cheating on me with two guys. Dropped her shit off yesterday. Day 1 alone for the first time in 4 years is off to a slow start, and I could really use a pick-me-up.

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I just graduated high school! Not the highest achievement but I’m still proud.

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I'm a 6'2 265lb Negro who wears a wrestling mask. I'm the star of a new youtube series Spaceman-X, and it just got over 8,000 views! I feel real great!

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sorry i just woke up in my verification photo, but i wanted to share my progress in dermatillomania. i’ve been picking my skin for 13 years now and it’s a dark and isolating place to be. i’m trying my best and i’m on my way up. looking forward to not feeling shame about my face. (26F)

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36 days clean from meth and heroin, struggling to stay on the right track. Could really use a toast right now to pull me out of the negativity.

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(22F) After years of hating my body and my eating habits and putting it through dozens of fad diets, I finally decided to work with a nutritionist in repairing my relationship with food. Real proud of myself. Only up from here!

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I'VE MADE IT PAST TWO WEEKS WITHOUT BINGING, PURGING OR STARVING MYSELF! I never thought I would see the day where I would feel okay eating a meal! Happy days!! Does this deserve a toast?

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Today begins my last semester before graduating this May! I’m a 33 year old veteran who took 10 years to complete my Bachelor’s degree due to mental health issues. After many personal battles this past decade I can finally see the finish line.

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told my (same sex) crush i had feelings for him, totally expecting him to tell me he’s straight and not interested. instead he asked me on a date. feeling really good.

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The Trifecta Of Anniversaries: Recovering From Terminal Disease, Choosing To Fight For My Life, And Sobriety. Three Years!

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I [F19] graduated with a HS and AA degree AT THE SAME TIME after a vigorous battle with bipolar disorder! Received high honors even with a quarter full of Fs (due to a hospital stay).

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This is the face of a girl who has survived a 6 yr abusive relationship, the loss of a child, a divorce, no place to call home, a heart condition and betrayal from those I've loved the most. I have been used, made to feel invisible, and beaten both literally and figuratively. Still, I smile 💜

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It’s been a tough battle to say the least. I was homeless, living in a tent downtown. I was robbed, jumped, had guns pulled on me... It took every job I got, every friend I had, and every dime I made. Today, I’m 100 days clean from heroin :) I have a job and a place to live. Feeling great!

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We unexpectedly lost our 19mo son in November and we wanted to make sure his memory stays alive, so we formed a non-profit to help spread the love he gave us. Launched the website last night and am feeling sad that he isn't here, but proud we are keeping his love going.

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I am graduating with an honors BA in psychology from an Ivy League university. I also got accepted into the same school for an MS in neurobiology. I’m 28. I’ve worked my ass off. Toast me!

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I was supposed to get married in a few months before my girlfriend of 10 years recently left me for another guy. Being stuck at home is lonely and mentally draining, but reading all the nice posts on this sub helps me stay positive.

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I am over the moon. A month ago I quit my job during a pandemic and everyone thought I was insane. But my mental health is more important than a paycheck. Today I got hired at a new job and I start Wednesday!!! With a 3 dollar pay raise!! I can not stop smiling

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COVID-19 ICU nurse on another 12 hour shift slowly losing my faith in humanity. Complete with nose mark from frequent mask-wearing, vampire skin from never seeing the sun, and eye bags from lack of sleep. Please be careful out there.

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25 today. Still living with my parents and not really sure what I’m doing with my life. Dating is getting me down. Feeling a little lost. Please give me a cheer.

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Posted here over a year ago after failing a class in nursing school (for the second time) absolutely destroyed. Your kind messages kept me going, and I’m now (FINALLY!) an RN! Thank you all for believing in me ❤️

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I passed my entrance exams and my ranking was good! Your girl is going to college!

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Overcame depression, self harm and anorexia about a year ago. Today is a tough day because of personal problems and I could use some love. I just hope things are gonna be okay.

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My parents are on the verge of getting a divorce...they argue every day and my father takes his anger out on me. So now I’m slowly losing home in myself and my family, but hey, smile through the pain :,)

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I may be sick with COVID, but that’s not stopping me from celebrating TWO YEARS CLEAN from all mood and mind altering substances! Toast me!

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I always thought I was going to be one of those Forever Alone types, but the guy I really like asked me to be his boyfriend recently and I couldn’t be any happier with him than I am now! A toast is in order perhaps? :)

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Tomorrow is the 1yr anniversary of my brain surgery about 3 weeks ago I landed in the hospital thinking I had a pinched nerve only to be told my brain cancer has spread to my CSF&there's nothing left for them to do for me. Just trying to spend the rest of my days happy with my v husband. Toast me

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Been in a depressive mood lately and decided to clean myself up a bit to improve my self confidence. How do I look Reddit?

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32/F In July 2018 I was diagnosed with stage 3 colon cancer. Sept ‘18 I had 12” of my colon removed. Feb 2019 I finished 12 rounds of chemo. Today I am officially 9 months cancer free. On Monday I start my new job as a patient scheduler in the oncology department where I was treated. Toast me.

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42. I've had a complicated and difficult life but I've tried to overcome that with every lesson I've been taught. I'm just so tired of learning lessons. Life never seems to get easier, no matter how positive I try to be. I'm having a really tough night and could use a toast.

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RN here... exhausted, overworked, and fearful of how things are looking. Stay inside, stay safe please <3

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It’s my real life birthday, my mom died unexpectedly yesterday and I am a complete wreck.

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Nurse dumped during the pandemic, feeling ugly, fat and lonely. I've decorated my bedroom like a spaceship to cope. Now I'm seeking external validation from strangers.

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I am an Autistic teen battling severe depression, anxiety, chronic illness and grief over the loss of my twin sister. Toasts greatly appreciated! Thank you!

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My daughter(15) came home from school upset because another girl told her she was ugly. Ignore me and toast her please!

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I'm reduced to nothing today. My boyfriend just left me. I feel like a pathetic drama queen, but, please, kind strangers. Make this day better.

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33F, exposed to covid 2 weeks ago so I quarantined all through christmas only to get dumped yesterday... He said “It’s awkward that you’ve been quarantining because I plan to go to a big party for new years.” Bullet freaking dodged but I’m having a lonely holiday, please toast me

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Today I choose to be happy...because my birthday.

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My big brother died of cancer a few days ago, just came back from his funeral. Also two weeks ago my girlfriend ended our 4 year relationship so I had to move back to my parents place, my self esteem is at my all time low. Everything just seem so surreal. Just need some kind words from a stranger.

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[21F] almost ended my life yesterday. today, I finally reached out to somebody and sought out help. I’m very proud of myself and looking forward to getting the help I’ve needed for years. toast me!

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Had to drop out of college last year because I was severely depressed and felt like an absolute failure. I just got accepted into a similar course that's a level lower for next school year and I finally feel like things are looking up again

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After two years of chemo, there's no sign of cancer!

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I just did my first job interview after one year not working because I was healing from my neuropathy. I still have really bad side effects of my moprhine withdrawal. Please give me strenght and confidence 'cause I really have none. 😣 I really want that job 😣❤🐼

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(38F) Going on a social-distance style first date in an hour. Could use a toast!

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I just ran 2 MILES as a coping skill! This is my first workout since high school and I can’t stop smiling! Take care🌷

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Battling severe anxiety and depression, bad breakup, parent separating, losing my hair at 21, and just general devastating loneliness. Please shine a little light on my life today :)

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I left my abusive relationship last month and also quit meth at the same time and I just want someone to tell me they’re proud of me or something! Thanks!!

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Tried killing myself last night, am stuck at the hospital. I really need a toast man. (Hope the vertification is ok)

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