Facebook Harrasment by Nmom handled...I think? [SUPPORT]

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This seemed very fitting..

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About our depression; it was eerie to see it so succinct

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I'm 29 and just found this sub. After years of being told that I'm an asshole by my parents and being unable relate to anyone...

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Nmom responds to my note... I have laryngitis, and the reason i left a note was because they like to wake me up when im sleeping to ask me batshit things.

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Just signed my first lease and found a job in a city I love :) I'M MOVING OUT OF MY PARENTS HOUSE

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A narcissist's storytelling.. (stolen from /r/funny)

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Every time my parents try to guilt me into calling them more often...

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A few years ago on my birthday:

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My NMom died recently. In loving memory of her, my dad got the perfect magnet.

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This really hit home for me today and I felt like maybe someone else might need the reminder.

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Wow. I have no words to say for this.

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Saw this on FB and thought of us...

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Just for all of you struggling...

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Should have seen that coming

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I saw this on /r/adviceanimals, to ask of us who decide to try to break the cycle.

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Confessions of a child of a Narcissist

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Just seen this on facebook

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Sound familiar...? I'll just leave this here...

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I just want to hit enter so badly

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Was suggested I cross post here [from /r/tumblr]

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The sad reality that many of us face (x-post from AdviceAnimals)

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Why do I even have a relationship with this woman (nmom)?!

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Saw this on /r/pics:

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I saw this on South Park last night and it made me feel better about my Nmom. I hope it will help some of you wonderful people

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Just what I needed to see.

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I saw this on Pinterest and it made me think of my NMom

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Thought you guys could use a reminder

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i found this on imgur...it might not be the MOST relevant thing, but i thought some of us might be able to relate.

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I found out you can do this today!

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I am sure you guys can relate...

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A little something that reminds me of how N's begin fucking their kids up early on:

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Found this on r/atheism. Yet brought back memories at the word evil

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Nmom and her crazy texts...

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Someone posted this on my feed. I think it's a perfect reminder for this place.

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Text from my NMom. She is using my kid brother as bait.

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Home for the holidays (PostSecret)

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Saw this on Facebook and feel it belongs here.

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A friend posted this on facebook and I immediately thought, This belongs here.

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A good freind posts on facebook that she is sick in the hospital. Freinds save her from her NMom's antics.

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I feel bad about this because my grandparents are old & might not be here next Christmas. At the same time, this is allowing my coworker who has a proper family to spend time with them (I explained my situation to her and took her shift).

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Any time I'm at a show or festival with my friends, I have an irrational fear they're going to abandon me. This is why. 21 years of this shit.

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Nmom manages to take a one-line email and spin it all sorts of ways... Look familiar to anyone else?

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Not taking the bait.

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Found this on r/funny...

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This is my NMum's favourite mug. I couldn't imagine why...

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Blocked, unblocked, realized I had made a mistake, made a REAL mistake. You can't re-block until after 48 hours. I'm in for it now...

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What other family members don't see when they tell you that you should just get over it or just accept the apology

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Not sure if this has been posted before but I thought it belonged...

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On my feed... really reminded me of my Nmom.(trigger possibly?)

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My thoughts after Ndad tried calling me again today

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This popped up on FB... Definitely not my idea of a loving parent.

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From the new issue of Mad Magazine!

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Found in /r/pics. I felt a sting.

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Recently realized I have an Nmom. She told me if I wasn't ok with her moving her (minor) surgery to coincide with my one visit home so I can be her nurse that I shouldn't come home. I'm buying my own ticket and staying with my bf instead. I stood strong (the first time ever?) this is the result

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narssic...narssict...narcissicti...

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Reminded me of my NMom. (x-post from /r/GetMotivated)

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I told my friend I was going NC with my Nmother and she sent me this

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My wife sent me this. This is my mother in law. Note: Nana lives 10 minutes away, Madre lives 4 hours away.

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My aunt's comments on my new relationship status.

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My mom's comment to my status last night. The answer is no, not really.

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I sent this text to my sister after I stood my ground and told my mom that I was moving in with my boyfriend

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After 3.5 years of NC ... I had to think about it, but I made the right decision. [support]

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Oh the irony (x-post from r/funny)

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My Nmom every time she talked about how she took care of us. I mean regular shit like feeding us, keeping a roof over our head, buying us clothes or just sticking around in general.

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Love you guys <3

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Oceans have their uses.

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This makes me very angry.

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There are often posts that make it to the front page that remind me of this place. This is one

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My mother contacted my wife.

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I posted this on r/adviceanimals before I knew about this sub. I think you can appreciate it more.

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Momitary confinement

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[Possible TW] Yep...

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I think we should send this to our N moms

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NMom posts this kind of stuff all the time on FB, I know that it's just supposed to be a lighthearted joke for most parents but for some reason it really makes my blood boil.

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As a coping mechanism, I make memes of my N-mom.

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Ex-stepmom posted this to my cat's facebook wall. Her marriage to my dad ended when she was arrested for attacking him with a knife.

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As being once the GC, and now the SG I can relate on both accounts.

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Pornstache is my boyfriend, family awesome is his family, drug addict is my best friend, and losers are the rest of my friends.... it seems too crazy to be true.

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[Trigger Warning] My mother just sent me this because I keep forgetting to call her when I leave the house. Can anyone help me analyse her behaviour, and how I should've acted?

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I saw a post on this thread about Postsecret. I saw this a few weeks ago and saved it, it's morbid, but comforting knowing you're not alone.

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When I feel guilty about sharing details on this sub...

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I found Reddit because I needed to find something to do

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I called to check it was ok, told them who I was with, went home to grab some stuff (at which point they could've told me not to go) and yelled goodbye twice before I went again...there's no pleasing her

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Think this belongs here - saw on r/adviseanimals but it aptly describes my NMom...

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She'll never believe it's because of HER...

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Given they did something that extremely goes against your morals, of course. (x-post from r/adviceanimals)

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Saw this on my FB feed and immediately thought of you guys. The photo is irrelevant but the message is great.

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This is how I feel sometimes about my future

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Prince Hans from Frozen

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Lucille Bluth and my mother could be twins!

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My worst nightmare...

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I made a little something for my NMom

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Nmums facebook. Story in comments.

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Facebook catharsis: when their posts validate your instincts

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So I've been watching Say Yes to the Dress

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My NMum just put this up in our kitchen. I don't think she realises how much I wish I could...

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For those of us who ever self-doubted ourselves.

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Was told y'all might appreciate this.

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Maybe because those are his children?

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How I've felt since I became aware of narcissism

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Just found this sub and realized my dad's response to finding my room dirty would fit here.

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My N Dad sent me this tonight, because I couldn't answer my phone while I was at uni. Sometimes I'm just blown away by how cruel he is.

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Oh, FFS. Nmom and her guilt trips.

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Birthday card from NC Nmum

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A normal conversation between my mom and I...

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And they bemoaned the fact that they'd never see me again...

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I'm sure you can relate.

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Just Saw This Being Shared On Facebook - Thought It Just Screamed Narcissist.

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Narcissistic Abuse: One does not simply

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My Mother at her Grandson's birthday party

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My NMum was on a cruise for her birthday. She apparently didn't see my Facebook post and apologised later because it wasn't her fault she didn't see it. Been NC ever since and I love this subreddit!

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When I was little I made my mother a t-shirt...which she then proceeded to use as a rag for the last decade. I only recently found this sub and suddenly everything makes sense

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My mom broke silence with me to let me know I shouldn't claim my own child on my taxes. I blocked her emails now too.

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Portrait of a narcissistic parent. I believe I have reached the breaking point.

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MFW I read the pain and courage on this sub

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My Nmom got a response to a spam she sent out

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My Nmom likes to give me money, then complains about how much she supports me. I thought the post it note she put the message on was a bit ironic.

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My mom is insane.

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My Nmom posted this after seeing me for the holidays and hinting to everyone that I've gained weight. [possible trigger]

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No need to get all defensive. I'm just trying to help.

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Found on fb, reminded me of you all.

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Gift Nmom gave to me for Xmas. I always said her compliments stung like a wasp. All I could think was WTF?!? (GC is an alcoholic and it has caused NC. Makes this even worse)

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Saw this poem by Pat Ingoldsby today and I thought you guys here would appreciate it too!

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The only good N is a fake N

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NMom (blacked-out comment) comment to my status on Facebook (Story in comments)

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GC vs SG; Remind you guys of anything? (x/post from r/funny)

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Sadly, I'm tired of wasting my energy trying...

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Saw This Image on /r/childfree, Thought it Belonged Here: Moment of Recognition - Mutual Dislike :)

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My Nmom's way of coping with the fact that she's a crappy parent. (Posted on her FB).

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N-Mum & Depression.

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I can't watch this movie because it reminds me of my mother...any other movies to avoid?

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A scumbag mom... (xpost)

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This what I found on my facebook feed this morning

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Not sure if it is a repost but I feel this belongs here.

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My NMom just posted this on Facebook. I don't find it funny.

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What happens when I refuse to drive my drunk mom home [back story/explanation in comments]

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Today, my parents apologized for a number of things that they did and promised to respect me

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My NMom sent me this today. Oh the irony.

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For my fellow ACoN who suffer from perfectionism.

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Image I found on facebook, Rules for dating my son

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Found on my BPDmom's Pinterest: When you see it...

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Not my story, but I felt like this belongs here. How warped are Ns?

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someone said they needed a Redditmom hug so I made one for everyone to share

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After going NC, this is how my Mom lets the world know.

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