All mother aren’t great

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When you put it that way...

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I saw this in another sub, I think it belongs here too

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My SIL loves to shit talk about my parenting, relationship, and life in general. So I finally got fed up enough to go low contact, think she noticed?

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Found on Facebook

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Accurate interpretation of what its like being the oldest in a toxic family

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If you're going home to an unsupportive family this holiday season,

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Message I (29F) received from my cousin (33F) as I was sitting next to my dying father (57M) because I denied her mother's (my dad's unstable sister) demand to squat at my father's house after his passing.

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Anyone else forever thankful for your friends' families who adopted you after going NC your biological family?

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Am i crazy, or is this a really fucked up way to respond to your daughter thats struggling deeply.

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Family dysfunction is passed down until someone is ready to deal with it. This is for anyone who, like me, feels like they are that person. It is a lonely but noble path. I wish all of us a light and easy holiday season.

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For the anti-vaxxer in your life.

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Gina and Jay are my new heroes

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Brother is mad that I won’t give him money for weed. He’s always asking for money and won’t get a job. Then tries to make me feel bad. I just had surgery on my leg yesterday and need rest. Every time I ask him for anything, he won’t help.

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Saw this on Instagram by Jameela Jamil. Anyone else relate?

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I needed to go to hospital for chest pains, changed my mind, she asked me to go shopping with her and I said no, and it turned into this

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Some comedy and some heartfelt words for this trying season. Good luck everyone. ❤️

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My mother...

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Truth be told

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Last summer my sister visited me in China. On top of constantly insulting me she... got drunk, broke my phone, window, and tried to fight me. She wouldn't apologise and blamed me for her being drunk

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Went NC with my dad about 2 months ago. My BF just sent me this post my dad posted on his wall.

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So my fiance’s mother just posted this to Facebook....nice to know nothing has changed /s

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Using next time in an argument.

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I rarely check in, but it's a treat when I do.

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Ah, so I don't want to talk to the woman who threatened to kick me out for not grieving my bother's death properly (+ more), so I MUST be doing drugs?

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Sometimes people pretend...

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This triggered me so much

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I told my sister I didn’t keep/want the ultrasound picture after finding out my fetus died in the womb yesterday- this was her response

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How do I get my daughter to stop crying?

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Happy birthday to me/s. This aunt hasn't contacted me in 8 years since my parents passed away. No one on that side of the family has so much as liked one of my posts, so when I saw [her name] posted on my Facebook birthday card I was surprised.

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This looks like the official uniform of the JUSTNO's

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Made me think of this thread and JNMIL

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I don’t know if this is the right place. I told my sister that I didn’t want to buy her boyfriend a birthday present bc I don’t know him that well and she replies with this.

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I know what I'm asking Santa for.

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For those who need reassurance when it comes to hard choices regarding toxic family

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My Dad claims he can't afford to pay my mother child support, but apparently can afford to buy a new $5700 bicycle

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I guess this it the subtle way to express displeasure with your daughter's parenting

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Alternative Mothers Day Card

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Mom got arrested for meth but still thinks she has the right to see my son.

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Step sister lit my dads house and RV on fire. House is ruined and a family pet is dead.

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I’m (22 f) married and live 1,000 miles away and still get texts like this. Sometimes I feel like it’s just me but would you be gagging at this too?

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Just a reminder that it's hard to come to terms with childhood abuse and wherever you are on that journey, you're ok. Love yourself, heal and commit to not continuing the cycle.

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My mom posted this on FB and if I rolled my eyes any harder right now I'd be staring at my Amygdala.

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Thought y'all might find this as humorous as I did. I posted this four years ago. Oh to be young and naive again.

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Friend’s mom posts these passive aggressive memes all the time bc the friend is NC. Maybe don’t be an asshole to your daughter?

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She's taking over and thinks she's helping, but she's unintentionally depicted attacking a white blood cell, hurting his immune system - doing more harm than good. In that context, I feel like this belongs here.

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Mother must've been somethin... (Xpost from r/funny)

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JNGPs in the wild draw weapon at grandchild visitation

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the time AnswerMe! went way to far

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My preferred name is on screen and she can't even use it

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I moved to Washington with my husband leaving toxic family/people behind in Tn. I could not be happier with our first family portrait. This is how family should feel! Husband and I are on left of the picture..

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Narcissistic substance abusing brother & I were supposed to be watching the family dog at our parents’ house, he agreed not to bring over his intoxicated friends for the weekend. They’re men in their 20s, I’m a teenage girl. Currently zero contact. Thanks to this sub for teaching me abt projection.

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Xposted from r/sadcringe. I wonder what caused this.

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DH first Father's Day and his sister sends him this. First post, just no.

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Might be a repost, but...

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A lot of people need to Remember ( sorry if it’s been posted on here a lot I don’t remember seeing it here )

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Got this card from my JustNoGma that I’ve been NC with for years 🤣

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When the In-Laws play matchmaker

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My stupid JNAunt posted this on FB. I barfed in my mouth a little...

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Nothing pisses a narc off more than seeing you live your life well and knowing they have no control over you

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I confronted my mom about the manipulation and excuses. Her response.

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Demanding proof of price for a family Secret Santa.

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For all those pregnant Moms to be, with IL's and family both telling you what you're going to feel like doing after you deliver, because they felt good enough to do it, and telling you that you WILL feel like spending your baby's first Christmas somewhere else-NO is the only answer.

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Saw this little gem on my IG feed...stay strong out there folks.

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Made this year’s awful aunt Christmas bingo card... (with most identifiers removed)

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When you ask if everything is ok back home

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I posted yesterday about my Sil sending my DH two crazy pictures about grandparent alienation. These texts are from Mil and Sil that made us go VLC with them.

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A loving letter from my JNDad expressing his regret abandoning me, two months after my birthday.

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My lovely mother

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When you text your dad about Petty and get a new sibling

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My aunt decorated my unborn daughter for Christmas. I’m not sure if I want to laugh or cry

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Who says this to your granddaughter? Now I'm definitely not calling!!!

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Saw this and thought of you all guys. Hope you're all having a good holiday with those you love!

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Not all out there are terrible. The shit you put up with is not normalcy. I suppose we can all enjoy a little bit of wholesomeness in the holidays.

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We were too young to notice the toxicity

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FSIL posted this little gem on Facebook the other day and my DF wants her to watch baby 40 hours a week once it's born

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My father posted this after I reposted that recent tweet about 2018 being a hard year on my Facebook.

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Your spouse IS your family.

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Happy Father's Day

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My final exams are coming up and this is how my mother chooses to support me. Just one of the things she does.

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NC with Justnomom for over a year and she sends me this - running my day

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You should burn to keep your sister warm because that's what I did and you're a bad person if you don't.

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Or prepare for battle.

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I guess it’s not bad by y’all’s standards, but my mom has been on a spiel about moving back in with her and following her plan for my life ever since I moved out. Now apparently insulting me will help her case.

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MFW DH tells me 22 year old SIL is pregnant with her 3rd kid by her 3rd baby daddy two weeks after surrendering her youngest child to focus on her new SO's two kids...

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Tfw you’d rather die than let your family know about this.

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Toxic grandmother is mad because I won’t add her on Facebook and created a second account to send me harassing messages.

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How do I get her to understand she will never see my child or me ever agine

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This message from years ago I found in the filters on FB. It’s my foster sister spewing hypocritical nonsense. Stating her mom is so perfect and was great, but within the same message she admits that the foster kids were only there for a source of income and her mom never cared about them.

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Who says that to their granddaughter UPDATE!!! (The hardest swerve I've EVER seen)

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Gotta love manipulative uncles! And no, I never tried to f-ck my cousin 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Yet she still doesn’t understand.

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Man allows his wife to get a smart phone, and in exchange she has to cook him meals. Classic Narc move to use something you want to get what they want. BONUS: he liked his own FB post!

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A Subtle Screw You to my family and reminder to myself....

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Passive aggressive graduation wishes. This was at my niece's graduation party, from her grandparents.

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My Aunt is literally a aueen of drama and High schooler Level temper tantrums

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This is how we feel sometimes.

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I will stalk you and be your worst nightmare because I love you! - WTF

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Thought this would fit here too

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Am I being unreasonable for being pissed??

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#2 Arrives. What now?

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I'm about to lose my stuffing! (Rant)

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Sil still at it

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Too bad we can't have it shipped. Sunday funny to make you all laugh.

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Re: fancy goat vagina. I can't get close enough to Mama goat to get a good photo (first time mama is anxious) so here's Fluffernutter, a five week old snowshoe Siamese instead for the tax.

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How am I not supposed to be sad over this?

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NAunt just posted this on FB. She's a horrible person. She wonders why nodoby wants to associate with her and FM siblings.

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Our Sex Life Is Something You Need To Comment On?

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What my husband deals with regularly from his son’s mother... This is unprompted, as usual. It is soooo hard for me to not saying anything or expose this woman while my partner suffers.

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Just to make you smile

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JustNoMIL (who hasn’t been employed in over 25 years) shared this delightful nugget on FB

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Who else has been sent this by their justnofamily?

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Forgot about this gem

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My husband and in-laws wanted a family photo while I was in labor

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Key to my old abusive house and the key to the house I now rent. Funny how things work out

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Beverly came for a visit while I'm out of town for work. There's a text from my wife.

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And yet you did nothing either?

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YoU sHoUlD tAlK tO yOuR mOtHer

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Crazy Cousin at it again. When you feel like everyone hates you, vaguebooking must be the answer.

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Hope this is allowed but saw this on Etsy and it just SCREAMS JustNoAunt to me. Also vaguely uncomfortable.......

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What about this seems like a good idea

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Cringe...sociopathic sister posts on FB after NC for over 6 years.

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This is the kind of shit (pardon the pun) that Doodle has been sending me. I'm going to kill her, I promise you-she is pulling this BEC shit all the time. Fun times to come, she says. I've been handling this since I was 10 years old. She still heaves.

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Crunchy 2nd cousin in his best efforts

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DH gets an advanced degree in rocket science, rando relative is not impressed

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Ugh, my SIL. Just a general pain. This is the type of reply she gives my nonsense posts on Facebook.

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While my mother was abusive, my father was my best friend. He brings death and depression up a lot but is too manly to seek treatment, and says you make me happy, so you're qualified to help me. In reality, I'm often overwhelmed and don't know how to help, and that hurts me. And, I'm an atheist

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My wife wrote this to help ease her mind a little

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Follow up to my last post about my cousin. :/

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Just no sister compares an intense workout that my brother's deployment

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Older Sister BEC - Update

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Singularity and Thanksgiving (birb tax included)

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Last Time Little Bro Talked to Me Was to B*itch About Netflix

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Crunchy 2nd cousin in his best efforts

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BLOCKED

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