Anyone else have experiences like this?

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Reading this helps me a lot

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😢

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It’s been awhile since my break up, but I’m going through a relapse of feelings. This quote always helps me remember what is important. I hope it helps you too! Stay strong everyone!

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How didn't I realize it? Lol

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I’m not sure if this applies to all of you the way it does for me. But it really concisely sums up everything I’ve wanted to say for the last year. No contact is the best option, but it doesn’t mean it’s painless.

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my ex sent me this during no contact ...

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hahahaha

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Realization

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A Reddit comment I stumbled across that has helped me immensely

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I dumped him in October after 2 years together. I thought he would want to talk by now, it’s been over 6 months.

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What are distractions meant to do?

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Remember.

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I will finally learn my own strength, as I take back the power you have over me.

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Bruises heal fam 💓 Believe me, those things aren't scars - and even if they were, you look beautiful with them on.

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I won’t.

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I feel like breaking nc 4 months in

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Accepting the end

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He came back after 6 months. I ALMOST got sucked back in, guys. But I didn’t! I calmly and graciously rejected him with my dignity intact. (Backstory in comments)

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Mind vs Heart

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Yes or No

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Thought this belonged here.

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I (28M) made a pros and cons list of dating her (25F). What do you guys think? I wish we had tried this when we were still together..

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Why do they do this? He sent me this after already entering another relationship.

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Never let them disrespect you.

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Everyday some..

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Started drawing again as an hobby/maybe career path. I want to show it to my ex, 'cause that is what I would usually do. But I'm trying to be strong. I have nobody to show this to. So what do you think, does it looks decent?

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What do you guys think? I was in a situationship with this girl that I loved and we cut each other off a month ago and havent talked and seen each other since, till this messaged popped up.

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We broke up well over a year ago. She breadcrumbed me a month ago. I said I’d like to see her. She said she needed time. I went NC to move on again. Today I receive this.

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😇😇 (@thishappypage on IG)

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I can go from worshiping you to NC in no time.

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“One Day”....rooting for you all, hang in there.

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Facts by Jake Gyllenhaal

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closure with yourself ❤️

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It still happens regularly

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My ex keeps reaching out someway somehow. I’ve told him to stop and leave me alone but a part of me wants to see him. What should I do? We’ve been broken up since June and I’ve stayed no contact since except to tell him to stop.

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Im hurting so bad but this makes it feel a little better. First conversation after a 3 week nc then back to nc again until we heal

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Stay no contact with the Narcissist

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trauma bonding!

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When you finally block your Ex for good.

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Happy Valentine's Day! If you need motivation, sort this sub by 'Top of All Time'. PM me if you need somebody to talk to, I'll get back to you.

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BU was two weeks ago. I broke nc again today and this happened. Please I need some support.. Idk how to begin to deal with this

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Stay strong fellas, don’t break ‘no contact’

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Should I respond?

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Some Perspective (Screen grabbed from Instagram)

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No checking ❌

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Needed to hear this. Maybe someone here does too..

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You’re going to be okay

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Reminder ❤️

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would you respond to this?

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He reached out after 4 months.

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Mood all 2019

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Can you relate?

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A reminder not to let them back in your life after they destroy your trust. You can do this!

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I don't hate you.

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My ex broke no contact just to give me this

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You aren't burning yourself anymore. Keep it up.

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Was this an appropriate response?

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Keep going

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What’s everyone’s negative list they made of their ex? Just curious!

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she sent me this after 2 days of Nc

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I saw this and I thought to share 🩷

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been NC for about a month now, thought he was over me bc he said that he has moved on, acting very nonchalant and all of a sudden i got this today. should i reply or ignore?

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When you finally meet someone who is right for you, you realize your crappy breakup was what you actually wanted in the first place.

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My ex broke NC a few days ago and has been acting really odd. He told me last night he misses me. I’m not putting up with this.

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Lang Leav always describes those feelings that I can’t verbalize

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Some motivation. Hang in there.

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Feeling sad so I wrote a poem

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There, there

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My ex’s mom reached out to me

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If it was meant to be, they’d meet you halfway

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what do i even do?

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11 days no contact and i get this. After he cheated and went full psychopath on me when i caught him. Thanks? Lol

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NC

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What does he mean ?

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I felt like we could reconcile after our big talk after NC. And I got this text today. Back to healing I guess

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Just wanted to share a small win

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We need to all remember this when we keep thinking about our loser exes!!! This should be enough to stay in no contact.

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This made me cry

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👌🏻

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Lol

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anger is the hardest part to let go of

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Random post I seen

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ex texted me (pictures)

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2 months NC from my ex who dumped me. Wtf am I supposed to do with this?

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30 Days “Sober”...I was addicted to him. I ate, slept and breathed only for him. He was my drug. 30 Days NC and I’m SO much stronger than I was! <3

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It may feel like forever but it won't be (sorry if this has already been shared but thought people in this sub may appreciate it <3)

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Merry Christmas everyone!

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Oh man, this hits hard. Anybody else try to buy themselves happy?

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I feel this.

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LPT: Don’t want to delete your ex number? Rename them something to remind you of NC. Here’s mine.

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It’s what you need

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1000%✅✅

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Don’t text your ex 🤣😂😅

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Stop Chasing People

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Found this quote for all the dumpers who had to move on for all the right reasons

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I needed to see this today

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For all of us

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My rules

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I saw this post earlier and it strangely gave me comfort in knowing this isn’t my problem anymore

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to someone who needs to read this, including myself.

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This hurts. How can you go from this one half of the year, to breaking up? I know that’s a stupid question but I can’t help think it. I wish I could send this to him and know how it got so bad.

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Here she is again with some more breadcrumbs, it’s been 2.5 months since she last did it. I’ve learnt my lesson and I won’t be replying this time

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I broke NC. She dumped and i decided to go NC, i broke it yesterday to wish het a happy birthday and this was her response. What do you think?

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Had a few drinks with some friends last night, I texted him these when I was in a delirious state. I have no idea wht I was trying to say. I also called him but luckily he didn’t answer. Or it would just make the situation more awkward. Does drunk texting count as breaking no contact?

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First step to getting better

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One day you told me I was the man of your dreams... Two days later you left me for your cheating ex but still called me the one that that had everything you always wanted... I guess I was not enough.

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It's been 2.5 months no contact. Bets on what he'll say.

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You did not lose anything

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Around 6 weeks since breakup, here are some stats on how it’s gone (still very much in repair, but it’s getting more bearable):

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Because you deserve that future

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dumper contacted me 10 months later . I don't even opened the message. I'm proud of myself. wtf with the message like, you dump me haha

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We are not the same at all.

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The No-Contact of ExNoContact

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Breadcrumbs?

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Not sure if this is the type of content this sub allows but painting helps me cope with and visualize my feelings. Hopefully some of you can relate to my most recent work..

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Not sure who needs to see this today but....

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This hurt is for something

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Dumper possibly feeling guilt?

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Went ahead and bought myself flowers for Valentine’s Day. Please put yourselves first, ♥️ even if it’s just a simple affirmation you tell yourself.

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Stay strong my brothers and sisters, here’s the quote of the day that all of you should keep in mind.

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Big shout out to everyone who doesn't blet their pain turn into hatred.

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End of a chapter.

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What’s the point of constantly asking this with no clear intention of trying again? lol

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Blame it on the a-a-a-a-a-alcohol

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He messaged me. I want to respond, but I know he doesn't care about me. Ugh.

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Fix the environment it grows in.

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Ex doesn’t understand the meaning of No Contact. I caved and forgot about blocking on WhatsApp as I never used it

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I’m just going to leave this here.

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It has to be done guys. Let us all use this year to heal. Keep it up.

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Reason you don't need to contact your ex!

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Stop Worrying about things you can’t change

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WTF?

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The Modern Breakup Book

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Forever ..

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A bit of humour to lighten the mood

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Really wanting to send this. He dumped me but wanted to be friends. He called a few days ago. Now he wanted me to call and didn’t pick up. It’s been 5 hours. I feel fed up.

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My ex “drunk” texted me while my plane was taking off to go to NYC for new years with my new man 🤭

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Fuck you, that’s all.

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Found this on insta and it made me laugh so I though I'd share this with yall

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The universe removes people from your life for a reason.

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