This pretty much sums it up

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My relationship with people with BPD in a nutshell

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They really can't accept that they've done things wrong can they?

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I’ll just leave this here...

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The diagnosis has caused a negative stigmata

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Lovebombing is not giving, it’s taking.

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Discarded by pwBPD after 2 months no contact (advice needed on healing, see comment)

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I think anybody going through a breakup with someone wBPD should take a listen to this podcast.

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This was just too anger inducing to not say anything

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If only we could go back in time.

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Don't know if it's a repost but this picture always feels relevant. (Source Bojack Horseman)

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It could be a simple boundary by asking letting me sleep.

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Time to try to sell the engagement ring😒

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Help! I recently broke up w/ my BPD bf & I'm staying at my parents house while he finds somewhere to go.. he just sent me this..

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My ex's brain when faced with uncomfortable facts

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Well this floored me today.

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Quick Reminder [Xpost]

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She Said The Quiet Bit Out Loud

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Little morning humor for ya

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We've all been there. Take care of yourself first.

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They will tell on themselves. When they do, believe them.

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He sent one dollar

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Did Your ex pwBPD Manipulate in A Similar Way?

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They gave the best they're capable off. Or they choose not to give their all.

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A reminder lol

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Factual meme

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Subtle Art of not giving a fuck

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Was going through a moment of self doubt then I saw this...

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Those of us gaslit for trying to advocate for ourselves and our needs, this is worth remembering.

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The face you make when you're 6 months into a relationship with someone that has bpd

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Stay strong 🙏

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A collage from of our last conversation (when I confronted her for cheating). A great reminder to myself of how terrible she is

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An example of their impulsive emotions

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Told my pwBPD that a dear friend of mine passed away and that I was going to go to the viewing alone. She's never met him and honestly I just didn't need any extra stress bringing anyone. It really wasn't meant to be disrespectful but just look at this poor reaction. So sad, I don't deserve this.

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Actually taking accountability?

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Thought some of you might find this interesting

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Absolutely

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When the mask comes off.. heartbreaking

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Like something is seriously missing inside and you obviously enjoy this - says the guy that cheated on for a whole last year both physically and mentally with multiple prople and lied like crazy when I was suspicious

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And it never ends ... a continuous cycle.

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Weird hoover attempt?

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Saw this meme and all the memories of their reactions came up. Hate how such memes just justify their behaviour and keep them as the victim

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This resonates

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3 weeks no contact and she sends me this email..

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Received a Hoover months after the break up..

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10 months since discard, I’m tired of having to grieve this relationship over and over again

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A reminder to anyone painted black

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Don’t go back

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They be calling it Beautiful Princess Disorder now like SMH 🤦

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Found on another sub, thought it would fit here too

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Listen to Keanu. Stay strong.

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For anyone having a hard time tonight! Hope this helps you like it’s helping me!

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ExwBPD now contacting my friends

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If I had a dollar for every time someone said “but he’s such a good guy...”

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Just a reminder!

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i've been planning on cutting off my friend with bpd for a while. today, they did the job for me and said exactly what i was going to say. i'm honestly glad this is over

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Another front page reminder.

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Almost 6 weeks NC, saw my uBPD ex at the bar on Saturday and left immediately as a result. Got this shortly after.

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I just got my first Hoover and I don’t know what to do

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My experiences....

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This is the best snapshot comparison of toxic bonding vs healthy bonding I've yet to find. Thought some of you would find it helpful

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Something to remember...

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Found this pic over a year later. This is why I left and thank God I did.

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Audible Book on BPD: One Credit

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Self worth is real love

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anyone else follow both subreddits? leads to some fun juxtapositions

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I’m back to my hometown after 9 months since the discard. I’m scared to hurt again cause that was a tough one. She wants to see me. Idk what to do.

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A text message yall might relate to

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Patterns...- - -...

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You didn't fail them.

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This quote hit home with me

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Why are they like this? Text out of the blue... Crickets since...

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Possible Hoover attempt or does she really want to talk?

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Will they get their karma?

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A familiar event

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Never seen such an obvious display of projection and invalidating my feelings.... “You think I make you feel”

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They know. It's just the no accountability schtick.

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Anonymous attack after 4 weeks no contact.

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Win in silence.

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People don't believe me when I tell them how BPD can be. This was all in a 1 hour period.

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Although leaving is sometimes more complex than a single, clean cut, I aspire to one day having this kind of thinking.

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They do NOT do this...more like the roles are reversed (Facebook BPD posting)

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Woke up stressed due to a midterm I was running late for.. hurried out the door.. the result...

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I had to post this. Too good not to.

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What I wish I could say to my ex 😉

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Relatable

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is this an abusive man's understanding of repentance and love?

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Got this in my DMs after 8 months of NC

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Here we go...

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Daily Reminder To Everyone Considering Breaking No-Contact

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Replace parents with spouse and this describes me so well.

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Reminder

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For anyone struggling with leaving. Taken from r/BPD

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The “goodbye” letter I received

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Broken up now, but great example of behavior.

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I swear they can sense when you're finally over them

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How do I word this nicely to a pwBPD? I feel like I don’t know how to help my sister anymore.

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The worst advice given to loved ones of people with mental illness? Is anyone else triggered by seeing this or other truisms?

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Don't neglect your emotions

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Too real....

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another post by pwBPD I found on reddit. see how their mind works. Posting this to make victims understand their mind is ill. by no means am I shaming people with bpd.

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How I treated her is I broke up with her and kept paying her bills for a place I haven’t lived in for nine months . I broke up with her because she sent me abuse every single day while my dad was terminally ill. What do I say? I’m so scared of being character assassinated because of my response !

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Do I say anything back? Is this being genuine? Or is it another manipulation tactic?

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Thankful for the life lesson... I never want to be a bull again!

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Another reason to leave

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She reached out to me, how should I take this? Is it genuine? She used to be my best friend , but split on me over a year ago

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I think many here can relate.

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Imagine seeing that and calling it magic

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Don’t ever settle!

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My ex became a “witch” after I left her

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Wish my mom told me lol

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Undiscarded

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Received this today after not seeing ex for 6 months.... will never go back

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From “You Can’t Afford a Negative Thought”. My exPWB would always criticize me for reading self help books and I think I know why now:

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Very normal?

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Those of you in the world of singledom, how do you feel being preemptively warned about BPD?

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This feels so empty...

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Just what I needed to read this AM

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Had a feeling this would happen...

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Seen in the wild, and had to hold myself back from replying with way too much information about my childhood

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After being cheated on and discarded, this is what I woke up to after 2 weeks NC.

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Just a reminder for anyone overthinking the gaslighting that their pwBPD may have caused. It would take me forever to write all of the things he called me and all of the things he accused me of, that I never heard from anyone else in my life.

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Her email a month after discarding me for someone she knew less than a week.

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Did your pwBPD hate your therapist?

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They're More Different Than You Think

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Sounds like emotional abuse to me

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Hits too close to home.

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The BPDlovedones dilemma...

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“Idk” Do they enjoy lying to people? No remorse from them. So many questions but all they say is “idk” or “I don’t remember”

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When the shine comes off the apple and you're getting discarded

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Next time you think to yourself that your pwBPD is a good person deep down, remember: So is the guy who slaughtered children and built the death star...

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When does the guilt diminish?

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Oh, what 15 minutes can do

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If I hear you cheated on me in my dream so I hate you one more time...

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This is Minnie. My exwBPD and I adopted her together in November 2019. Moved out for good Monday and I know I won’t ever see her again. I hope she understands deep down that I will always love her and consider her my first dog, mine & someone who couldn’t love me’s. I’m sorry, Minnie 💕

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I feel that this kinda fits and also mildly ironic that i have recently started comparing these people to cactus's

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