Thought you all might like to see this... refreshing moment of clarify from my diagnosed BPD ex wife.1mo ⋅ jqodfle8132h ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Kanye West text to Kim leaked by him to Instagram. One positive thing about this debacle is a gentle reminder that this happens across the spectrum even to well-known and famous people!2yr ⋅ scarborough_bluffer ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
The day I put the ring on her finger and saw her cry in happiness1yr ⋅ LichtHammerXIII ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
I know this part can be a real struggle, so here’s a reminder..1yr ⋅ NbdyfuxwithTheJesus ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
If they don't want to resolve the problem, it doesn't matter how hard you try.5yr ⋅ lilithisrisen ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Weekends are especially hard on some of us, so here’s your reminder to get you through.1yr ⋅ thefrozenpines ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
is this the closest i got to seeing the “real her”? this was the day before i found out she had been cheating on me with my (now ex) best friend2yr ⋅ tropicanamontana ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Is It Normal For Them To Minimize Infidelity & Act Like THEY Were The Victim?1yr ⋅ safaparksasquatch ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Is this Genuine? Strict NC from me for 5 months. After a barrage of abusive texts in July everything received since has been stuff like this6mo ⋅ thewizard187 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
💯💯💯I finally feel free and myself again... once you remove that toxicity you see so much clearly....the manipulation, gaslighting3yr ⋅ Sweetbug33 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Gaining sympathy for the abuse she suffered took priority over letting slip that I was the side guy11mo ⋅ ultimateunbannable ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Stolen from another sub, but it feels appropriate for this one too.2wk ⋅ Glory_of_the_Pizza ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Hi folks. After a long time, I can enjoy small things again, like making moussaka, for example. Thank you all, you are a great support and help.2yr ⋅ Wonderful-Mango5853 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Broke things off with friend with bpd 5 weeks ago because i couldn’t give her attention because I was dying in the hospital. Today I got this:1yr ⋅ Icy-Problem-498 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Hoovering on day 20 no contact . Sent from another burner number. It’s almost like she’s finally coming to terms with what she’s done?1yr ⋅ manwhore25 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
my ex's texts after I told people he'd broken into my house1yr ⋅ Responsible-Work-688 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Hoovers come in all shapes and forms. Dont bother; the cycle ends the same with your heart broken into pieces7mo ⋅ Cassis_TheAncient ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
It will be a year soon since the discard. 10 months to put things into perspective, get out of the FOG and study psychology like a maniac... this is what I have to say:2yr ⋅ footslap ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
We had said goodnight to each other and hung up, this is what I woke up to8mo ⋅ darkdistance7 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Any memories w/ pwBPD you can look back on and just laugh at the absurdity.2mo ⋅ SkepticalOutlook_66 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
They always come back when they aren’t satisfied elsewhere. Keep your walls up and strong 💪🏻1yr ⋅ Lexdaddy270 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
I saw this on a Cyanide and Happiness random generator page and thought it was relevant here3yr ⋅ fliccmybicc ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
I feel like this might sound familiar to some of you. For me, it's usually something like, I need you to not speak to me like that followed by them responding, fine, I'll just never talk about it again!2yr ⋅ Jenniferkpower ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
I don't understand the point of this message I haven't talked to my ex pwbpd in a month and send me this but I wasn't planning on responding either but I don't get the point of her texting me this2yr ⋅ Material-Owl6051 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Hope today's an easy one for you all. Stay off their social media, if you get urges, come back to this sub instead and vent until you're over it.1mo ⋅ jackcantdothis ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
The gamut of BPD hoovers in one screenshot. Collect the whole set.1yr ⋅ Neither_Wasabi801 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Pov: When you finally have enough and are tired of their abuse and they hit you with a good phase/cycle out of nowhere.5mo ⋅ jezzyjaz ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Why do they do this? This is always the excuse to hurt me.1yr ⋅ Interesting_Name_990 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
when their attempt at victimhood seems more like a confession2yr ⋅ Delicious_Scratch_47 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
word for word exactly what I experienced, I wish I knew about this sub sooner :(1yr ⋅ ursonarcy ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
My BPD ex posted this a few weeks after cheating on me...uh what???? lol5yr ⋅ Whydoiwantherback ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
I cant believe she went from this, to feeling nothing for me and falling for another guy a month after our breakup. Congrats to their 6 monthiversary2yr ⋅ savemybrokenheart ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
For those trying to be the first ones achieving a normal relationship with a pwBPD2mo ⋅ mqdev_ ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
She got upset because I asked her to get ready to go to the gym. I pay all the bills and she’s unemployed.3mo ⋅ an10s ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Found this relatable however slightly inaccurate. My exwBPD would be more likely to break up with me the day after Valentine’s Day2yr ⋅ Nblearchangel ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
The text I received after she stole my phone, lied straight to my face about stealing it, went through it and this is what she found to play the victim as, after she accused me of cheating on her for months. I just wanted to make sure I wasn't going insane...10mo ⋅ JgotyourFix ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Came across this quote in the book Stop Walking on Eggshells - it resonated hard with me1mo ⋅ hybridaaroncarroll ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Do they just ignore and forget anyone who’s ever treated them well? 1mo ⋅ BigCut4598 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Cheated and left me for someone else.. guess it didn’t work out lol. Months of no contact on my end, no apologies or any form of remorse on her end. Must just need an ego boost. Anyone else experience this?1yr ⋅ mxvitro ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Ended it with pwbpd. Back and forth for nine month I’ve had enough when I found out there was someone else, here is what she said. Hard to tell if she’s manipulating me or not1yr ⋅ ALGPAPI23 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
As soon as i stop chasing her, stop reaching out and crying, stop contacting her in general or preach about how ill wait, she hits me with this, lol.2yr ⋅ ivanoq ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
If this means that it’s over, and that I should be relieved and happy... why am I shaking and about to cry?10mo ⋅ Jherimia ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
They really can't accept that they've done things wrong can they?1yr ⋅ power_in_healing ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
