A good reminder

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I get it; it isnt easy to move on

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Finally blocked her on Instagram yesterday, not even a half hour later I get this lol. Keep in mind we’ve been broken up for three months...

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DBT be like

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For all of you, who are thinking of going back

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This is the dammm truth

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Justifying cheating because of a dream she had

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meme time: dating before and after an SO wBPD

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I reached out to the guy she cheated on me with for months. He experienced the same level of abuse.

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Something to think about and consider for those of you in a BPD relationship

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a classic

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Thoughts on this guy's take?

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After ignoring the hoover in my last post I now recieved this. What I wish I could send is in the comments.

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Although it comes from a show I don't like because of my ex-pwBPD, it doesn't make it any less true.

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For those who received “apologies” that were just them putting themself down

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For my expwBPD, the disrespect was combined with sexual assault/coercion, emotional abuse, lying, cheating, suicidal threats, constant criticism, and emotional instability. Healing is possible once you are no longer being injured everyday. Stay strong, everyone.

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I found this to be SUPER relevant here.

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Nailed It

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She broke my heart two years ago and then decided this two years later

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BPD & Physical Violence (Assaults)

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I finally said goodbye and blocked everything

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i feel like this is how it works more or less

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This quote really hits home and probably for lots of people here too!

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Apparently this message I sent is ‘opportunistic’ and ‘abusive’

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You don't need to forgive

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Just cute messages from my BPD ex. At least now I despise him so much I can’t give anymore chances

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My ex sent me this as a “ joke” and then proceeded to follow it up with a text that said “ I guess this explains why I’m 3”

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Just leaving this here...

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Just saw this on r/wholesomememes and thought many of you needed to see it.

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You, nor anyone else can help them. Only they can help themselves, and that’s if they choose to. Don’t hold yourself accountable.

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Relatable, please delete if not allowed or if it’s too much

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bpd’s be like

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True

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*Sigh* Escaped one exwBPD just to find the dating pool is full of dudes exactly like my ex but even worse.

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This is the reason I was strong enough... Over a year out and neither of us have been happier in our lives. Full custody, no yelling, no guilt. We made it, you can to. Sending love and courage to anybody stuck in the cycle. You. Deserve. More.

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Ummm... thanks!?

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This Reddit is like reading a manual about my soon to be ex wife

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For anyone struggling... ❤️❤️

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How do we tell him?

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Usually not a fan of these self affirmation memes but this one spoke to me

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You can't change someone!

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Saw this on another sub, felt it would help some here too <3

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Is the the manipulation? This is after she left and ghosted me

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We have to stop living in fear. Stop apologizing for getting abused.

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I almost started crying

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So very relevant.

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Why do they do this? 🤦🏻‍♀️

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The one movie those with BPD can't watch

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Just came across this lovely community. With a 6 year BPD relationship in the rearview, this song rings truer than ever.

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Remember

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#justdon’t

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Every fight with a pwBPD ever

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Is this normal with BPD?

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One of my greatest joys was bringing her coffee in the morning.

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It explains it but it doesn't excuse it.

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First birthday without her in 9 years and she drops this off at my door late at night

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I found this in my journal, helps me keep track of the cycles. She reached out today, for a completely irrelevant reason: to ask me about Cables I left there. Same pattern as always. So I thought I would Mark where we are today on the cycle..

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Everybody thinks it's lovely until they get punched in the face and their soul is torn apart

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This is what I get for texting my ex happy birthday

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Just figured that we can all relate!

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Me majoring in psychology having to read an entire paper about BPD traits trying not to have Vietnam flashbacks

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For real though

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Oh shit oh fuck!

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For all those being smeared out there....

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Not many understand

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FB post in my memories I made 8 years ago, before being educated about BPD, before being aware I was a Borderline magnet.

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I used to think this image was sweet.

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When you find yourself making excuses for them....

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Don't think my eyes have ever rolled this hard

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The BPD flag

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I don't know who needs to hear this, but

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I will never regret my kids BUT

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Twitter feed giving major flashbacks

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And I have a BS in Psychology

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I've Learned My Lesson

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*throws up in mouth*

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Everyone here should feel good about this. You're all apart of each other's recovery.

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I about lost my shit when I saw this on Instagram earlier

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This reminds me of her so much

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Saw this on r/wholesome. This is an accurate depiction of how it felt calming someone who threw tantrums left and right because they wanted attention and affection 24/7.

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Saw this in an Avatar sub and it *immediately* reminded me of my exwBPD. So I thought I’d share here in case anyone else needed a laugh.

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She literally called me dad. I feel so gross

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Discard logic

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PSA: their behavior. Stay BPD FREE

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It was a 50/50 every day

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I survived and I'm the happiest I've been in a long time, you guys helped me through tough times and gave me strength. Thank you all!

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Sad I get being without her < Sad I got being with her.

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well that felt good

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Saw this cartoon and it really reminded me about someone. Imagine sleeping next to her.

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Being the bigger person sucks

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1000 BPM

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They post shit like this but ignore texts and never check on *you*

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POV: Trauma bonding w your pwbpd

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Gaslighting Red Flags

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The most pathetic hoover - sent £0.01 on a bank app to say this after 8 days NC

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...says my pwuBPD: 'I'm working stuff out on my own, I don't need therapy'

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Ex’s best friend contacted me

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Quite a few I would Imagine!!

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entering a relationship with a pwbpd

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My ex bpd girlfriend got mad I talked to another girl? We’ve been broken up and she has a boyfriend too. The girl she’s referring to I didn’t even talk to I simply asked her a question a month ago. I’m not understanding where this is all coming from, anybody experience this before?

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What was a moment where you said or did something and you sensed trouble from how they reacted?

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no matter how hard you try to explain it to someone... they just don't get it

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This fits in here

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Anyone else’s credit score jump up after your ExwBPD discarded you? Lol

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Marco Rubio has an important message for you all

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how do they say things like this while actively cheating on you? i knew she was a liar, but the little things like this crush me

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People with bpd acting like the victim

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Wait. So is this the response to the hours of threats and radio silence of panic I was going through? Daily life was like the Tower of Terror. When is he going to drop...and then he just fine!

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Mmhm

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🤦‍♀️Learning about my own

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Got out my relationship exactly a year ago and I still feel the effects sometimes. + a meme I made.

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Struggling with the desire to reach out, but I just keep reminding myself of the last thing we each said to each other.

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Your new bible

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He married the other woman two months after this. For those sticking it out, getting them in therapy, waiting patiently because they’re “trying”... just don’t. It’s all empty words.

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Missing them

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Then comes the build up and eventually lightning strikes and you're the rod

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Been struggling to put into words how my expwBPD would use gaslighting to gaslight me, so I made a meme instead

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Found this pro/con list I made about my ex-pwBPD before I knew what BPD was...

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For anyone who needs to read this.

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This is the meme my BPD ex just shared on Facebook. LOL

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When your pw quiet BPD has intense fear of abandonment and won't let you go.

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What kind of apology is this? lol

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I'm just guna, drop this here...

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Saw this on Facebook... oh no.

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Important

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Anyone can talk the talk, but will they walk the walk?

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Classic BPD shit, i am dying laughing.

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There is no closure with Cluster B traits.

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When they say they miss you...

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Actions speak louder than ideas

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trauma-bonding in a nutshell

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Soft discard?

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Made this chart as a reminder to myself, so thought I'd share. In a new relationship and started to see things that reminded me of ex-w/BPD. Things haven't gone wrong, just paranoia

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Rage filled “breakup”: gf breaks up w me almost once a month during splitting rage and then apologizes and we get back together. thoughts on ending this toxic cycle?. really want to make this work but can’t with all this drama. context: she’s upset there weren’t any recent pics of her on my finsta

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I couldn’t get my feelings out in words so I tried to draw it instead

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Kanye West text to Kim leaked by him to Instagram. One positive thing about this debacle is a gentle reminder that this happens across the spectrum even to well-known and famous people!

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What a healthy partner looks like - xpost from r/cptsdmemes

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Keep healing friends

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Every time I see a but the sex post

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The day I put the ring on her finger and saw her cry in happiness

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What it feels like when you find out.

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BPD art / the endless loop

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I know this part can be a real struggle, so here’s a reminder..

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