Time theft visualized. No, none of this is an exaggeration. I somehow survived four months of sleep deprivation.

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I needed to screenshot this to show how manipulative people with BPD can become, even if it seems perfectly innocuous behavior on the surface.

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Relationship tests? Tell me about yours...

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Girlfriend with (u)BPD posted this on her Instagram story when I wasn’t texting back as fast because I was spending time with some friends

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How I feel at the moment

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She changed her number again, got through my block and claims that she is working with a psychiatrist. I don’t believe anything she says, so blocking yet again.... I really wish she would discard me

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“It’s a different way of moving through life.”

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Love? Spare any love?

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This might help quite a few people here.

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No responsibility.

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She left me 48 days ago and I’ve been in NC every since. Got these texts today and I’m very rattled.

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Why G’d?

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Ignore them, you’re toxic. Respond, now they know you’re there so hope you opened your entire day up

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Drove past my ex’s place today... (hopefully this brightens your day- hang in there, everyone).

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Devaluation is the temperature rising.

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Found this, thought it might help some members. We are valid.

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Do not choose chemistry over charaxter

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I call this one the hoover damned

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Her mom texted me. Need advice.

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Meet someone with BPD who claimed to be different, made this to vent and try to make light of it. Hope it makes someone here laugh or feel less alone

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I saw this on tiktok and I related way too much..

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Gaslighting from those with BPD

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Happened so many times...

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Stay strong.....

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I think this something most of us should read many times again. And with that, I wish fantastic weekend for everyone in this sub! ❤

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Making light of the misery. This was me for a long time

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Are BPDs able to be positive

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No excuses are acceptable.....

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Anatomy of being in a relationship with a pwbpd

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A BPDLO classic

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For The Healing Journey

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Is this an emotionally mature and responsible way to break up with a bpd girlfriend?

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Your abusers trauma doesn't justify them abusing you

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Mindset Shift

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I found this gem, thought everyone might enjoy a little humor.

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I needed this today so I thought you all did too ❤️

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Wish I knew this earlier

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It's never really love with them...

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Think you'll never get a hoover text? Think again

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That’s how it be.

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Her Friends and Family were hers’, never mine

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Just started on Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist. Didn't know there's a diff bw Codependency and Caretaker

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Found it interesting that I came across this just now

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Spent 40 minutes getting yelled at and insulted by my mother because she thought I was being judgemental. In 30 years I’ve never laid down my boundaries with her, but today was enough.

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Wish it was easier to throw the whole damn person away.

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Does this look familiar from your pwBPD? Gave me a laugh, sometimes we need it!

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Twitter thought I needed this today

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BPD Relationship Bathtub Curve

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I found this post, could be relatable for many

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Emotional abuse signs

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“You constantly seek validation from the person who delivered the abuse.”

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For those wondering what DARVO looks like

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If you are using any of this to excuse someone's abusive behavior, you are gaslighting yourself STAHP! YOU DESERVE TO BE TREATED DECENTLY!

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Love Miles Johnston's art. This one hit home the moment i saw it. Pretty much perfectly reflects how the majority of us went above and beyond to make them feel loved and appreciated, even going as far losing a part of yourself to accomodate them. But is that what love is about?

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Ohh look who is trying to circle back!?

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You stopped giving up on yourself

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Merry BPD Christmas

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This did not make me smile. Sound familiar?

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Trauma bonding explain (link)

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I looked annoyed during selfie #4

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Don’t know who else needed to see this today

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This type of thing makes me feel sick, but also so lucky that I'll never believe that garbage again.

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Don’t forget

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I did it! I broke up with him!

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God it has just been one of those days

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Going forward. ✌️

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Me after leaving my ex, now I can’t unsee other peoples BDP traits. They’re everywhere! Or is it my PTSD?

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Ain’t that the truth!

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He’s been blocked for over 24 hours now. Not much in the bigger picture but it’s the furthest I’ve made it in almost 2 years together. These are some of the final moments that are giving me the strength not to go back

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the day i accepted that she did not and could not truly love me, but rather had a deep need to own me, is the day i was set free. it was the day i realized that when she said “no one will love u like I did” it was a good thing. and all her accusations of me not loving her were projections.

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A year ago, this was what I was dealing with. It took a long time, but this Christmas, I am happy, without this person.

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Thisissorelatable

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this is the sign what you are looking for

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Before/after dating BPD be like.

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Never take them back. All they want is attention.

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Please help. I thought I was doing okay. My exwBPD messaged me this on Hinge (even though she has a boyfriend...) because I have a photo of myself with her blurred out (i rly liked the pic of myself.) I haven’t heard from her in over a month. I’m panicking. Why does she have to be so mean?

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Ain't no sunshine when she's gone...( :D )

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Would not recommend staying in contact with an untreated pwBPD.

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Very True

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dating someone with BPD in a nutshell:

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I think this will resonate with a lot of us.

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Super empaths lol

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Wife w/BPD sent me this image

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Did y’all know there are different kinds?! I didn’t.

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Me when pointing out her emotional abuse for the 243rd time doesn’t make her stop

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We have all been there. We kindly ask for things to help the relationship, and we get the following thrown back at us: 1. You’re tying to control me!; 2. Am I ever good enough for you?; 3. I feel gaslighted!

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How many times did they make you cry in the relationship?

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Relevant Glass Onion Quote

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Understanding the why to bad behavior doesn’t justify it

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Something I found that might help you. I know things might seem hopeless, but life really can get better

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meme time: the realization...

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For anyone struggling & hurting just remember this 💜

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Alright, which one of you are NC with her?

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Saw this and immediately thought of my ex’s hypocrisy and double standards.

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What this community is all about ♡

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Live laugh love

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At this point I just sit back and watch

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I found this posted here a few years ago and don't know who deserves credit. If you need people to understand what it's like, this BPD Board Game is a good way to explain.

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Thought we all could relate to this on some level...

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For those still in the FOG

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One of the hardest parts for me was getting through the gaslighting

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Not just for women, men as well.

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Anyone notice how (very rarely) they take accountability, then say self destructive things about themselves that contradicts the apology in the first place, only to make you feel sorry for them?

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putting this here because i just need to. this is the worst thing i’ve said to anyone. i completely lost it. i know in my head that it isn’t okay, but it’s really hard to put up with so much intended cruelty and disregard.

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I made a mistake.

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Do no harm, but take no shit

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Just a daily reminder (not sure if repost)

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Have been seeing more posts about closure than not lately.

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A Good Reminder

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When I asked my Exwbpd What She Liked About Me...

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I came across this positive BPD traits tiktok post, what are your opinions on this?

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What it feels like after discard...

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PSA: It's always your fault... and don't forget it

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BPD in a nutshell...

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Need support staying no contact

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This happened our first week dating

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Making my reminders a bit more fun. Chat GPT tells me (in Australian Slang) why my relationship with ExpwBPD may have ended

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To all of us still piecing it together.

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It's not you, it's them

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I.. don’t even know what to say.

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BPD in a nutshell

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Why are you so angry?

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To all those who are asking themself How the hell did I get here?

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Y'all. Seriously. It will be either more bs or more abuse.

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You deserve more. Put yourself first.

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Looking at this I noticed she always comes back right around acceptance...

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This hits hard...

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Something they should see

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I chuckled. I hope you do too.

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I put “ruining my life” in the search bar of my text messages. Every instance of that phrase has been sent from... oh guess 😂 I finally blocked her for good in 2020, as you can tell. (I’ve even lived w/ my SO for 10 years and his name didn’t pop up once) — shocker right

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They are so hypocritical and love playing victim.

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Look familiar to anyone else? Subtle Art Of Not Giving A Fuck, page 172

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basically everyone outside of BPDLO be like

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Thought we all could use a good laugh about shitty situations

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It can really drive you insane

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To me & anyone else who needs this right now...

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💯💯💯 #tryingtoDothat

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Sad truth

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hoovered then discarded again

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Trauma bond explained

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Why do people act like this?

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Something for all of us to remember

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the last line really ties it all together

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This gave me goosebumps

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