I'm struggling with this. I don't want to bash her...but does she remember?3yr ⋅ Flecktones37 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best2yr ⋅ Marriage_eroded ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
PwBPD when they realize you’re an actual three dimensional person, and not just the perfect imaginary character they’ve made you out to be in their head2yr ⋅ AnnualWorldliness239 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Splitting characteristics; emotionally driven, no factual basis, and very fast10mo ⋅ lev_lafayette ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Attempting to explain to your pwBPD how they’re hurting people and trying to avoid the inevitable character assassination3yr ⋅ CamCamSam0 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
I made this comic to help process a horrible breakup. Reminder that whatever your exBPD's reaction, you are NOT a bad person for leaving.3yr ⋅ flimdin ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Love is not enough to help a toxic person. They have to want treatment for themselves. Do not carry their pain because it was never your pain to begin with.9mo ⋅ Cassis_TheAncient ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
New girl I'm dating for 3 weeks, all of my alarm bells are going crazy1yr ⋅ JgotyourFix ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Healthy relationships don’t require you to have a degree in psychology to communicate7mo ⋅ FranklyYes ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
None of us were in a relationship with a healthy, mentally stable adult.3yr ⋅ Marriage_eroded ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Not victim blaming, I stayed 17 years, but a good reminder for everyone who's been in toxic relationships.1yr ⋅ amillionbux ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
this is what I found on reddit written by someone who has bpd. it'll help understanding their brains.1yr ⋅ reign402 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
thought about this community when I saw this picture (r/wholesomemes)1yr ⋅ dentedgal ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
I did not go through therapy, or support groups, and putting myself first to fall for this low-effort Hoover. 1 year NC and still going. 1mo ⋅ Cassis_TheAncient ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Saw this in another sub for a suite relationships and thought this might help. This type of thing is especially present in Co-Dependant&BPD relationships!3yr ⋅ ablondethatbites ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
This answer from a therapist I found on quora. I agree w every word. Especially the triggering each other1yr ⋅ Thisnameisreserved ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Main symptom of the disease - It's all about THEM THEM THEM. Not about what they could do if they have BPD to not to fck up the relationships3mo ⋅ bocihordo ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
My friends, who are in healthy relationships, have no idea what it’s like to be in a relationship with someone with BPD, and it’s hard to get them to understand. So I made them this graph. What I mean when I say my relationship was a rollercoaster is this.3yr ⋅ Optimisticsai ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
What Gaslighting looks like. For those who want to learn and as a reminder. Credit to r/coolguides. Not a cross post.3yr ⋅ Xiena78 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
got my hand chopped with a hatchet for ignoring her in an attempt to keep an arguement from escalating.1yr ⋅ humanimalienesque ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Do they reproduce asexualy? Are there thousands of copies of the same person placed throughout the world?1yr ⋅ ultimateunbannable ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
She sent me this. How cute and not terrifying at all. Not one bit of irony. (/s)1yr ⋅ CausticMoose ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
I fell in love with the mask. And my mistake is believing the mask was her and not the abuser underneath the mask.7mo ⋅ Cassis_TheAncient ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
I feel like they say this and then leave out the smallest triggers possible8mo ⋅ BarInternational1045 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
As someone married for 15+ years to an abusive person with uBPD, this is me every time I see a post about being discarded1yr ⋅ Afferent_Input ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
I wrote her things that she never read... I just want to share some so it is seen and not lost to the void.2yr ⋅ Boxarocks3 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
POV you check the instagram story of the worst person you know1mo ⋅ ciggie_in_the_sand ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
A few days after a huge argument because I drank all the milk and left nothing for her, I found this under the couch. Apparently she hid it to be right.2yr ⋅ RanVanRed ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
This is exactly what happened in my mind when my exwBPD tried to hoover me again.3yr ⋅ itealaich ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
it's not a matter of if this happens, it's simply a matter of when.1yr ⋅ UniversityUpstairs56 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
A text exchange showing just how quickly their behavior can flip.1yr ⋅ Appropriate_Force831 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
I needed this episode today. Such an incredible show that I think so many of us can relate to.3yr ⋅ Goatrobot ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
When they split and say the most cruel things after telling you they love you...1mo ⋅ Party_Pitch1640 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
I noticed astrology (and supernatural stuff in general) might be quite common among BPD to use it as an excuse for their behavior, so I made a meme3yr ⋅ Classic_Bottle_1 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
