This is exactly what happened in my mind when my exwBPD tried to hoover me again.7mo ⋅ itealaich ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
A year ago, this was what I was dealing with. It took a long time, but this Christmas, I am happy, without this person.3mo ⋅ True2Caesar ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Love Miles Johnston's art. This one hit home the moment i saw it. Pretty much perfectly reflects how the majority of us went above and beyond to make them feel loved and appreciated, even going as far losing a part of yourself to accomodate them. But is that what love is about?1mo ⋅ euroserr ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Next time you think to yourself that your pwBPD is a good person deep down, remember: So is the guy who slaughtered children and built the death star...1wk ⋅ footslap ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
I'm struggling with this. I don't want to bash her...but does she remember?6mo ⋅ Flecktones37 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Seen on r/funny, should have put something like this on her wall.2mo ⋅ DeathCondition ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
As I deeply get destroyed by my pwBPD, I see myself in every word. No matter how much I change, how much I want it to work out, she makes I feel like I'm the one causing all the trouble.6mo ⋅ vinmi ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Look familiar to anyone else? Subtle Art Of Not Giving A Fuck, page 1721mo ⋅ Pseudo_Nyms ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
My friends, who are in healthy relationships, have no idea what it’s like to be in a relationship with someone with BPD, and it’s hard to get them to understand. So I made them this graph. What I mean when I say my relationship was a rollercoaster is this.5mo ⋅ Optimisticsai ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
I made this comic to help process a horrible breakup. Reminder that whatever your exBPD's reaction, you are NOT a bad person for leaving.3mo ⋅ flimdin ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Drove past my ex’s place today... (hopefully this brightens your day- hang in there, everyone).1mo ⋅ Lorie_Strode_31 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Went to the orchestra today even tho I'm not allowed to be out past 6pm! It's my violin and I'm gonna play it damn it! No yelling and threats will stop me6mo ⋅ Maximellow ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Everyone here should feel good about this. You're all apart of each other's recovery.1yr ⋅ Tall_Escape ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
💯💯💯I finally feel free and myself again... once you remove that toxicity you see so much clearly....the manipulation, gaslighting3mo ⋅ Sweetbug33 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
I saw this on a Cyanide and Happiness random generator page and thought it was relevant here8mo ⋅ fliccmybicc ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Although it comes from a show I don't like because of my ex-pwBPD, it doesn't make it any less true.2yr ⋅ little_did_he_kn0w ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Saw this on another sub, felt it would help some here too <34mo ⋅ Professional-Put-804 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
What Gaslighting looks like. For those who want to learn and as a reminder. Credit to r/coolguides. Not a cross post.6mo ⋅ Xiena78 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Saw this in another sub for a suite relationships and thought this might help. This type of thing is especially present in Co-Dependant&BPD relationships!5mo ⋅ ablondethatbites ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
For my expwBPD, the disrespect was combined with sexual assault/coercion, emotional abuse, lying, cheating, suicidal threats, constant criticism, and emotional instability. Healing is possible once you are no longer being injured everyday. Stay strong, everyone.3wk ⋅ ThreeHourNap ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
...says my pwuBPD: 'I'm working stuff out on my own, I don't need therapy'8mo ⋅ trillium_waste ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Woke up stressed due to a midterm I was running late for.. hurried out the door.. the result...2yr ⋅ Mykeslykes ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
For anyone having a hard time tonight! Hope this helps you like it’s helping me!1yr ⋅ frm420 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
This is the best snapshot comparison of toxic bonding vs healthy bonding I've yet to find. Thought some of you would find it helpful5mo ⋅ OnionXanax ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Thankful for the life lesson... I never want to be a bull again!1yr ⋅ mydownstairsmixup ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
I needed this episode today. Such an incredible show that I think so many of us can relate to.7mo ⋅ Goatrobot ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
To anyone that is beginning to become aware of their abuse. Please know you are being robbed of a basic human need (Love). Stand tall. Be happy again. You deserve it, friends.1yr ⋅ abbazabasback ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
DBT has actually helped my PWbpd somewhat when combined with compassionate listening techniques... Not perfect, but a huge improvement! Note, this initiatial 'highly emotional situation' was her family disapproving of her clothing and I was doing groceries so I didn't see her texts...1yr ⋅ Mykeslykes ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Reading this and being guilty of it all really displays how unhealthy my relationship was.1yr ⋅ Nicholasryan99 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
If I hear you cheated on me in my dream so I hate you one more time...2yr ⋅ HollyGeee ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
From my Facebook from 3 years ago. It was about my dbpd son in law.9mo ⋅ puppyisloud ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Told my pwBPD that a dear friend of mine passed away and that I was going to go to the viewing alone. She's never met him and honestly I just didn't need any extra stress bringing anyone. It really wasn't meant to be disrespectful but just look at this poor reaction. So sad, I don't deserve this.3mo ⋅ Nicholasryan99 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Epic red flags I was able to spot before hand! Before therapy I would have seen this guys comments as romantic, now I see them as a desire to be enmeshed with someone and to force someone to become a version of himself and lose their individuality. This was on a dating app. Pass!!2yr ⋅ IamAFortress ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
Don’t let your emotions trick you into thinking you’re connected to them for healthy reasons10mo ⋅ Wonder10x ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
they say make a list of all the weird shit they did/said to you. i ended up with a spreadsheet that spans six years2yr ⋅ OddWalk0 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
I have been painting to cope with the aftermath of being discarded, and was able to accurately capture how far I've come... Thought some of you on here may relate1yr ⋅ Mykeslykes ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
If I had a dollar for every time someone said “but he’s such a good guy...”1yr ⋅ mommygray13 ⋅ r/BPDlovedones
