for a trans girl, what is your favorite part about being a woman?

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Is it okay to apply to a job I'm not quite qualified for in the hopes it will give me the in with an organization that I want to work for?

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What non-terrible dating apps do you Trolls use? F4M, btw

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How do I make friends in my late 30s?

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What are some ways to help a friend who constantly fat shames herself?

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What are polite ways to hint at/tell people they are talking about their children too much and are unnecessarily bringing them into too many conversations?

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Hey trolls, how do I teach my niece sex ed? Her parents are really dragging their feet and she's already 13 and knows nothing. I think I need to volunteer as tribute. Got resources for me?

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Any other trollx here notices more harassing and rude comments and mansplaining when redditors assume you are a woman? I added long hair in my avatar and the rudeness and mansplaining has increased A LOT

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Trolls who have gotten the covid vaccine and have since gotten their period - did you notice any differences? Early? Increased cramping? I'm not due to get mine for a couple of weeks, but I want to prepare myself. Also, here's a closeup of my cat making a her normal face.

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Ladies! Help me choose between period panties or reusable cotton liners 🩸

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Who are your favorite male porn stars that don't look like hyper masculine frat bros? Do they exist? For context, I'm into guys that look like this...

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What is it called when it becomes emotionally draining to continually ask your partner for help around the house/with everyday tasks?

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I'm in my 30s and for the first time in my life I have a reasonable job that doesn't eat all my time and mental space. How do you, like, learn how to be a person, build a life for yourself that's not completely reactive to external deadlines and crises?

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Why does it always seem if you are a woman with a differing opinion with men online, the dismissive name calling is their go-to? It appears I am a trainwreck for calling out shitty behavior...

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Troll approved underwear brands?

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My therapist said I need to give myself a little grace. What are your examples of giving yourself grace?

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Can we create a subreddit thats an EDC for women? Like a whats in my bag?

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Where are the non-toxic golf communities at? Any women here know of a community that isn't full of wife-hating dudebro culture?

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Trolls, can we talk about drinking?

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Please help... I have a performance review coming up and I just learned that one of my older male colleagues may have been taking credit for a lot of my work. Birb picture for tax.

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Trolls, my therapist told me that I need to do something every day that’s ‘just for me’. I’ve had a bath, watched a movie, and baked and I’m kind of bored. What do you lot do ‘just for yourselves’?

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Introverted folks here, how the heck do you manage your friendships?

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Anyone else with emotional immature mothers? How to deal?

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What are your favourite opposite-sex friendships from fiction?

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So, how do y’all feel about tattoos?

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Help finding an article (or more!) examining ones own racism?

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Book/gift recommendation thread: I need help finding feminine snark for my 11 year old niece.

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Trolls, where do you buy your underwear?

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Trolls, a friend I was into says he’s catching feelings but he’s “not sure” about anything. I’m so terrified of getting hurt by the uncertainty of it all. Any advice?

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Is it time to end a friendship? I came out to two friends and they invalidated me.

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Considering cancelling my large(ish) traditional wedding due to stress and eloping instead. Have any of you gone through this? Could you share your stories please? I’m struggling so much.

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Trolls, I’m starting a job where I’ll be the youngest in the office by quiite a bit. Any tips to beat the old fave of impostor syndrome?

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How do I stop feeling guilty about spending money on myself?

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Hello Trolls! I'm going to the gym again, what's shaking in the land of fitness now?

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Have you ever have the anxious thought that I might never meet the one and going to be foreveralone ? How to get over this stupid thought ?

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What do you think about big age gaps if it's only a one-night stand and not a committed relationship? My friend is nearly 26 and had a ONS with an 18 year old. I don't know if this is creepy?

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What the best trip you’ve been on or fav place in the world?

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When did you notice that your friendships were changing as an adult? I'm noticing irreconcilable differences with good friends lately and it is making me sad.

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How do I tell my boyfriend that I don't really like the Christmas gift he got for me?

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There’s going to be a protest about the new Texas abortion law in my city this weekend. What should I put on my sign?

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Anyone have any new book recommendations?

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Trolls, I finally have an opportunity to get out of a really toxic household. But I’m so torn because I won’t be able to bring my cats with me. I’d love some advice on what to do, more info in the comments

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Trolls, I lost my best friend on Friday. Cheers to the best adventure buddy a girl could ever ask for!

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I need to know: should I quit my pharmacy job to protect my family’s health?

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How do you learn to fix/take care of your car without the fear of breaking stuff getting in the way?!

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So.. I'm 27 and feel I've gotten hairier. Is this normal?

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May have fucked up by removing myself from my wife's family's group chat...

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Any tips on spicing things up when you're bored of being alive?

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What do you do when your fam keeps breaking quarantine?

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Update: you were all very helpful six months ago. I got it all planned out and the jeweler just sent me the ring. Eight weeks from now, it finds a forever home on her finger.

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What are your pro's and con's of social distancing ladies?

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Other girl power song suggestions?

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I used to be addicted to catfishing online because my gender dysphoria. Now I feel terrible about it and don't know how to cope (explanation in comments)

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Why can't I stop dreaming about my scummy ex? We're never together in the dreams, I just want his approval but in real life I don't even wanna hear from him. Anybody have this? How do you get it to stop?

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How are all y'alls handing all your thirst!? Slinging the silicone stallion is just barely keeping me sane. Dating was horrible before but now it is impossible...I miss any physical contact.

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How do I get my male co-workers to stop spraying urine on the bathroom floor?

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Lately the only way I can relax is to watch YouTube videos of stationery hauls, art hauls, and artists painting calmly. What are your favorite calming YouTubers?

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Any advice for job hunting? The fatigue is real.

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Trolls, I’m pretty sure my boyfriend’s about to break up with me. How can I make it easiest on him?

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I'm a little broke this month and am thinking about offering tarot readings online. Should I?

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Does anyone have experience being stuck between a new job offer, and a counteroffer from your current employer?

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Trolls, my ex boyfriend won't stop talking about me online and emailing me, today I notified family about it.

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Would you be weirded out if someone reached out to you, asking about your previous job?

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Manager Trolls! What are some good, subtle questions to ask an interviewee to see if they're sexist?

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More info in the comments, I’m not sure where else to ask. But how do you build an identity after depression?

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Went on a great tinder date and then internet stalked him when I got home. He’s had three restraining orders filed agains him, two within the past year. Help.

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Any badass managers open to mentorship/questions from a noob? Finding my footing and would love someone to talk to.

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Birth control (IUD) caused sexual aversion to the point of disgust.. anything similar happen to anyone else? Story time below

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I am negotiating for a higher salary tomorrow with a new employer... for the first time!

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Trolls, do you have any advice with coming to terms and accepting that you're physically unattractive?

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I feel like I can't find ANY porn where the man makes noise -- groans, moans, dirty talk, or whispering. Does anyone have any suggestions? Even awesome porn-for-women sites don't tend to have videos where it is featuring the man making noise. The only ones I can find are men masturbating solo.

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Have a threesome set up with a guy I’m casually dating. Turns out the other girl has feelings for him. How do I proceed?!

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I think I'm ready to come out to my extended family, but I'm not sure how to do it. Any advice?

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Questions to get to know long term SO, to ignite interesting conversations during quarentine

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Did you ever wear your grad/prom dress again after prom/grad?

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Tell me about your best vacation!

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Trying to remember the name of a certain hair clippy thing

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Trolls I’m going back to finish my degree! Any tips for working full time, being a parent, and doing school online?

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My rabbits ate through my doxy wand last night :( Any trolls with good vibrator recommendations?

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Trolls who have unexpectedly come into a fair amount of disposable income...what's a luxury item that you purchased that you consider a highly underrated near-necessity?

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Trolls... What BC did you choose post-IUD and why??

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How do you deal with a job that--for some reason--is giving you the old okey-doke?

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How many times have you had we can read one another's minds level romantic chemistry when the other person wasn't completely bad news?

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My white liberal colleagues had a massive go at me for living at home and refuse to accept that it's a cultural thing...

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Embarrassed to go to a pedicurist?

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How do I stop stressing about “settling down?

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Thoughts on body positivity and how it relates to middle aged/older women?

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How do you fill your day while you're looking for a job (other than applying for jobs of course). I can feel myself getting depressed just sitting around the house waiting for an interview.

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Do you know any good, funny, safe for work women minecraft let's players? Context in comments

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Ambiverts / Introverts...what's a way to tell your extrovert friends that your social energy is tapped out and you need a break without seeming like you're just bailing on them?

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What are y’all fave Narnia movies? Also puppy tax

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Is a UTI a valid reason to call in sick?

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Does anyone want to create a TrollsOfColor subreddit? It'd be nice to have a safe space from racism similar to the way TrollX is a safe space from sexism.

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Alcoholic drinks for a girl that hates the taste of alcohol and fizzy drinks in general?

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Trolls, how do you deal with society's beauty standards?

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Trolls! I need your help. My best friend is pregnant! But I've never been pregnant and I don't plan on it so I have NO IDEA how to help her. Any advice or recommendations on how to be a good friend for her/help her out during this process?

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Will having my last name not match my husband's last name make it difficult for us to see each other in the hospital in the event of an emergency?

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How do I lie to my mother about this? See comments.

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What are some tips for dealing with failure? I have a deep sadness and anger from failing on an amazing opportunity for a passion of mine recently and wondering if anyone has any processes for dealing with failure they can share?

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Has anyone here been able to volunteer at all during COVID? If so, what have you been doing?

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Trolls with a petite anatomy, what have your experiences been with menstrual cups and discs?

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Trolls, what do you take with you to sleep over at your SO's place?

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Trolls, my first girlfriend continuously speaks with her ex on a daily basis and i cant get over it. Help? (Full story in comments)

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Is it okay to dump a guy via message that you've only been seeing via very casual dates?

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Any advice for a troll who's living with a partner for the first time?

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Trolls, I'm in need of new push-up bras (or false advertising as I call them) any suggestions?

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Trolls who are parents: do any of you like having kids? Every parent I know just keeps saying how much work it is but i wouldn't trade it they all sound like hostages.

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Trolls, how do you make a move on a guy without explicitly saying so?

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Is it important your partner has the same political affiliation?

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How do you deal with relationship anxiety?

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How do I become a morning person? (Or at least, less of an asshole)

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Resources for more sexual confidence and better sex?

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Trolls... I need to figure out what I’m doing in life. I hate the job I’m at now, but nothing is hiring for anything without degrees. I don’t know if I want to go back to school and/or go into debt to do so, or even what I would go into. I’m desperate here.

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Today I was typing out a compliment to a friend of mine, and changed it halfway through. I typed out You're a very wise woman, then I deleted it and rewrote You're a very wise person. Should I be this hesitant to use gendered words? She is a woman. Why did I feel worried about saying that?

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My sister has weird views about women's bodies. How do I get her to change her ways?

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Anyone else get turned off when their partner tries to initiate by acting cutesy? (I know it's specific but I want to know if I'm not alone!)

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Trolls, How can I resolve my weird racist attitude of being jealous of POC's cultures?

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Trolls, what you do with this hair clip? I can't figure it out.

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I have insurance, but I'm anxious about going to therapy for anxiety :) What information is helpful for my first meeting with my GP?

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Why do I suck so bad at choosing a career?

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Are there any not sexist Dad pregnancy books or do all of them just assume men are cavemen? Should I just have my husband read the same books as me?

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I just got a last-minute invitation to a friend's baby shower TOMORROW. She said I didn't need to bring a gift but I want to bring something. I will give her a check but would like something physical as well. Any recommendations? Looking in for something easy-to-find and under $50.

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Trolls, my best friend was threatened with a knife last night by her boyfriend. I’ve taken the day off of work to be with her but could use some advice on how best to help her through this.

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Trolls who travel a lot for business, what are your tips for staying sane when you don't know what city you'll be in from week to week?

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Ladies with curly hair: what are your favorite products to set/prep/define curls after washing?

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Halp! I’m needing to choose a more permanent form of birth control. I’m not dating currently, after everything I’m done with relationships but I still want to have a backup to the usual protection as well. Any suggestions or experiences anyone want to share to help me!

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Any fan suggestions for someone whose hormones decided to ramp it up and make their body into lava? I may not show it, but ya girl is melting

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Ladies, I realized the other day when I saw the news of that trans lady get elected in Virginia I have some internalized transphobia. What can I do to start getting over this?

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What do I get my pack rat dad for Father’s Day? I usually get him “experiences” we can do together but with COVID that isn’t an option.

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Trolls, I have a date! I've never been on a date. How do I do this dating thing?

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I Googled how to use fake tan but they didn't say what you do while it dries. Do you just stand there naked and sad?

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