Something you can relate to if you hate mother's day.

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I feel like this belongs here...

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Needed to hear this

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Yup

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louder for my parents in the back 🥲

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This hits too close to home :<

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*sigh*

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*sigh* assholes

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Good morning! If your parents violate your privacy, that can be considered abusive. Your parents in yellow and scream in front of you, that's definitely not ok. When I was in the garage door open I would just freeze sometimes. I hated when Mama came home

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Break the cycle!!!

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You are not obligated.

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Wish I could tell my parents this.

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Made this meme. Makes me chuckle at how ridiculous my life is.

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My parents never went to therapy with me

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Okay but this actually made me laugh

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So my emotionally abusive father passed away with no will and me as the only child (he was successful). In the last year my girlfriend (also with abusive parents) and I have moved out of our rental and into the house I inherited. We've renovated it and we've been able to escape our parents!!!

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Anybody else react this way to being yelled at by *anyone* as an adult?

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Never too late

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A suitable meme i made

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@ everyone in here

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The Last one hits hard...

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Laughed but damn it’s too true lol

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Thinking about this just makes me cry.

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Don’t let your family decide who you deserve to be with.

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Thought a little dark humor to end the weekend

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This hit me like a train

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Child abuse is “a hidden epidemic” (van der Kolk)

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Posted by my abusive step father who gave me a black eye when I was 3 and refused to accept me as even a member of the family...taking everything not to comment

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ᴡʜᴇɴ ᴀ ᴘᴀʀᴇɴᴛ ɪᴤ ᴀʙᴜsɪɴɢ ʏᴏᴜ, ᴛʜᴇʀᴇ ɪᴤɴ'ᴛ ᴘᴀɪɴ ɪɴ ᴛʜᴇɪʀ ᴇʏᴇs..... It's hate....

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Realizing that everyone chose to ignore the abuse is.. awful.

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Why Was I Abused?

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Thank you.. At least the abuse gave me permanent motivation to always continue improving myself

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My mother apparently thought it was funny to tell me my favorite skirt made me look pregnant.

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This about sums it up

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We see you 💗

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Be texting me like did I do something? 🤦

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I know it’s only verbal, but still.

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Abusive parents change EVERYTHING about u- even who ur attracted to. My husband was domestically violent, didn't treat his mental illnesses,& had substance abuse issues... Just like my mom did. Child Abuse makes chaos feel comfortable; violence felt like home. PLEASE don't forget ab this when dating

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Thought some of yall would relate

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Corona means I'm stuck at home with my abusive father for who knows how long

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I've just had a shocking revelation

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I used to mention stuff like that and expecting people to relate and get me and they all looked at me THAT way

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My boyfriend is using one of my super old notebooks for work. Depressing memory of how I used to countdown my days to freedom on paper when I was younger. Remember that there is an end eventually. Proud of where I am in life now.

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Lol

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My dad @ every single one of my past birthdays making sure I have a bad time

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Powerful quote

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Abuse isn't a life sentence, speak up and don't stay silent.

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Abusive father who nearly killed me and my brother sends his birthday wishes after a year of silence 💀

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Anyone Else? I wouldn't be caught dead not doing something.

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I mean, am I wrong?

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so... my parents offered to watch my puppy, only to neglect him and get mad when he pooped in the house. today they hit me with an invoice.

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This was huge for me

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A friend who's a relatively young mother shared this on Facebook, and it spoke to my heart

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Oh wow

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I love so much the kids I might never have. Cause I don't want them to suffer as much as I did. This world taught me the sins of parents and the consequences. They don't pay them...we do.

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Yup... My mom is that much of a fucking loser

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Complete ignorance of the consequences of their horrible parenting

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Had all of them

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Mom: abused me for years Me: as an adult I don’t want you in my life Mom:

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Finally cut off my abusive mother, felt really great.

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Gaslighting

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🤔 she doesn’t even know what grade im in 🤔

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good parents don't scare their children.

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Artwork I made about abusives parents. I hope all of you are alright. Have nice day.

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Why we hate crying.

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My dad found out I self harmed. This was his top of the line response. I looove this house.

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When your mom wants the computer for herself

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My parents have still have never said sorry for what they did

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A poem

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Anyone else having a rough time with this?

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Anyone relate?

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My own father sent this text to my mom behind my back... saw this on my moms phone, screenshot it and sent it to myself....

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Yea this actually happenede 10 minutes ago

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I’m (24F) finally about to escape living with them and they’re harassing me now after name calling me, threatening to kick me out every day in the first place, and call me mentally f’ed up

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Hmm.

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Yes, because your child's mental health is a fucking joke (she commented this mere months after I had a breakdown about the abuse I suffered as a child)

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sometimes I get sad, then I remember the last time I said to my cervix side

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I was in the way of my angry father

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When you mix math and Karen

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Drug abuse to her child.

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Is this normal?

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This pisses me off so much. I wasn’t able to thrive because I had such a selfish mother now they want us to be their “retirement plan”? I think tf not!

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Don't know why my parents hate me

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this is the jacket my parents restrain me with

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Abusive father dead names me and sends transphobic article

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The 'arguing with a crazy / toxic / abusive parent' starterpack xo

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My mum bit my leg after we got in a fight

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What my mom texted my older sister who moved out 2 years ago because of her

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Possible trigger...I get so upset when I see this stuff. I don’t know if it’s because the bad memories stand out but I have a feeling my mom never did this. And I am so bad at self soothing now.

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Thats my mom. She died of cancer 3 years ago. When I was a child she would lock me in a closet for hours. I would soil myself in feces and urine on the floor. Crying and screaming for help. It happened a lot.

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Abusive parents think they can dictate what I call them after going NC

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I wouldn't exactly say that my parents are abusive, but...

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I was too scared to put this on my snap bc to normal people I sound like a bitch looking for attention but this really fucked me up

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A text sent by my 17f mom 38f all because I asked her to give me back my phone charger that I bought.

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Aren't they right? I brought nothing but ruin to their lives.

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My boyfriends mom. When he first got a TV she kept telling him to get it out the house because it “wasted energy”. Then he got a PS4 and he was only allowed to keep it if everyone else in the house could use it. She will literally find any reason to start an argument.

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My father wants me to visit for the holidays (TW for referenced violence)

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This flying monkey shit writes itself. It's almost stereotypical. All because I shared a post to my story about how negative self-talk is often internalized criticism from parents.

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dad who I've barely been talking to sent me this.

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I (21 ftm) told my mom i dont want a relationship with her bc shes transphobic

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This is from my hospital discharge notes from one of my suicide attempts.... Why did they send me home with her...there was a history of abuse ....

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My mom mailed a card after years of NC for my birthday. “Work things out”=forgetting she threatened to kill me, stole my identity, etc. lol.

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I made this note to get myself through quarantine. I have lived alone with my mother for over 15 years (I'm 21).

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sent to me after having kicked me out

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My biggest trigger.

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Memories

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My moms is freaking out because I’m getting my car (that I paid for ) fixed (with my money) and she thinks nothing is wrong with it.

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Doing all clean up while drunk parents sleep

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Just a friendly reminder that verbal abuse still counts as abuse. Also, i made this a few months ago, any thoughts?

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I found this in a thrift store today. Yikes.

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How my mom responded to my cat I’ve had since childhood dying

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My family animal died and my moms decided to text the recipt.

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One of our six animals are peeing in the house. My brother saw my dad abuse my cat last night because he thinks it is him. Of course he was drunk and I wasn’t home.

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Does anything similar happen to anyone else? And literally how to do I deal with this if every time I talk she takes it as an attack?

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Homework with abusive dad starterpack (read the comments.)

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This is the kind of “support” I have 🤦🏻‍♀️ family is trash

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what my sibling says to justify the horrendous physical abuse our father has inflicted on us for two decades.

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About done with my evidence file! Just need to go to the courthouse to get the rest :)

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Finally moving out of my parents’ house, nobody (family wise) believes i can do it bc i have no car yet and it’s 30 mins from my work. My plan is moving, license, car. I know i can do it.

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How can anybody just spew hate like this?! Here's to hoping that his 2 daughters grow up to be straight, skinny, Christians who marry white guys because that's the only way they will be loved. 💔

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Am I in the wrong ? I’ve told her where I was and when I’ll come back and she randomly starts blowing up my phone...I’m 25 yrs old

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Back when I lost my pet bird right in my hands and got lectured by my dad for crying because “I wouldn’t cry like that if he died” (I definitely wouldn’t)

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Happy Valentine's Day to me I guess .

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I drew a portrait of my abusive father

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abusive birth giver called, asked me to call back, i’ve been panicking since (almost an hour) what do i do

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This is how I found out I failed senior year. By my abusive, homophobic, rapist supporting dad. (The only reason he brings up me doing drugs is because he forced me to do m*th with him and blackmails me with it.)

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From just a few minutes ago. kind of an add on to my last post, but you don't have to read it to understand. He added on that he would tell my therapist I was lying about everything. Yay.

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SOS - more info in replies

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Who disagrees with this I feel like a friendly debate?

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My moms response to my brother and I getting vaccinated..

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Telling my mom I love her

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thanks to the infographic i took action

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My mom made me drink out of sippy cups till I was 11.

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scared my family is hiding knifes in my room to frame me. all happened at therapy today

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This abuser (adopted dad) honestly thinks me calling him out for being abusive is FUNNY? Wtf is with the haha react? 😡

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Have my license yet dad continues to limit where I can drive.

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